Javi Marroquin
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Fair. Well, yeah, that's what he said. But where I was coming from with that was my path of moving forward with custody was going to be based off of his answer, right? And so if he would have said... it was either school year or summer because let's get that. I think both of our attorneys said, Hey, this is, this is no other way to do it. This is the baseline. So one parent is going to get school.
One parent's going to get summer. We'll figure out the holidays. So it was okay. That's at a minimum. So it was like, okay, link, this is the situation. I wasn't, if, if I'm moving, it's, this is, I'm moving. How do you feel about it? This is it. School year, where do you want to go?
One parent's going to get summer. We'll figure out the holidays. So it was okay. That's at a minimum. So it was like, okay, link, this is the situation. I wasn't, if, if I'm moving, it's, this is, I'm moving. How do you feel about it? This is it. School year, where do you want to go?
One parent's going to get summer. We'll figure out the holidays. So it was okay. That's at a minimum. So it was like, okay, link, this is the situation. I wasn't, if, if I'm moving, it's, this is, I'm moving. How do you feel about it? This is it. School year, where do you want to go?
Because based off of his answer was going to be my driving factor of, hey, is this even a fight I'm going to put up? Or if he says, hey, I want to stay with my mom. Okay, well, then what am I fighting for? If you don't want to come with me, that's how I took. So if he would have said that, then I don't need it. Why am I going to spend $1,000 on an attorney and put this in a judge's hand?
Because based off of his answer was going to be my driving factor of, hey, is this even a fight I'm going to put up? Or if he says, hey, I want to stay with my mom. Okay, well, then what am I fighting for? If you don't want to come with me, that's how I took. So if he would have said that, then I don't need it. Why am I going to spend $1,000 on an attorney and put this in a judge's hand?
Because based off of his answer was going to be my driving factor of, hey, is this even a fight I'm going to put up? Or if he says, hey, I want to stay with my mom. Okay, well, then what am I fighting for? If you don't want to come with me, that's how I took. So if he would have said that, then I don't need it. Why am I going to spend $1,000 on an attorney and put this in a judge's hand?
So for me, when he was like, no, I want to go with you. And it's hard. I get it. He's telling you one thing. He wants to stay with you. He's telling us he wants to go with us. And I can't imagine the emotions and feelings an 11-year-old is going through. So for him to say, hey, I want to go with you, it's like, OK, well, I'm going to do everything I can. It's just a pain.
So for me, when he was like, no, I want to go with you. And it's hard. I get it. He's telling you one thing. He wants to stay with you. He's telling us he wants to go with us. And I can't imagine the emotions and feelings an 11-year-old is going through. So for him to say, hey, I want to go with you, it's like, OK, well, I'm going to do everything I can. It's just a pain.
So for me, when he was like, no, I want to go with you. And it's hard. I get it. He's telling you one thing. He wants to stay with you. He's telling us he wants to go with us. And I can't imagine the emotions and feelings an 11-year-old is going through. So for him to say, hey, I want to go with you, it's like, OK, well, I'm going to do everything I can. It's just a pain.
This is a feeling that is a shitty feeling for everybody. And it sucks because he cries with me and he cries with you. It was the same, right? So he would go to sleep. And I'm saying, hey, are you OK? You know, he'll just start crying and I want to go with you. And I know I'm doing, you know, let me handle that. I'm doing everything I can where you just got to let it ride out.
This is a feeling that is a shitty feeling for everybody. And it sucks because he cries with me and he cries with you. It was the same, right? So he would go to sleep. And I'm saying, hey, are you OK? You know, he'll just start crying and I want to go with you. And I know I'm doing, you know, let me handle that. I'm doing everything I can where you just got to let it ride out.
This is a feeling that is a shitty feeling for everybody. And it sucks because he cries with me and he cries with you. It was the same, right? So he would go to sleep. And I'm saying, hey, are you OK? You know, he'll just start crying and I want to go with you. And I know I'm doing, you know, let me handle that. I'm doing everything I can where you just got to let it ride out.
And so that was my driving force as to why I thought I needed to tell Lincoln. And then when we got with the judge, he was like, oh, well, why does he even tell him or something like that? I'm like, I just don't get it. I don't understand it. Still? No. How can you not... Lincoln's not Lux or Creed's age, right? I get that. If they're that little... Lincoln's 11 or 10 at the time, whatever he was.
And so that was my driving force as to why I thought I needed to tell Lincoln. And then when we got with the judge, he was like, oh, well, why does he even tell him or something like that? I'm like, I just don't get it. I don't understand it. Still? No. How can you not... Lincoln's not Lux or Creed's age, right? I get that. If they're that little... Lincoln's 11 or 10 at the time, whatever he was.
And so that was my driving force as to why I thought I needed to tell Lincoln. And then when we got with the judge, he was like, oh, well, why does he even tell him or something like that? I'm like, I just don't get it. I don't understand it. Still? No. How can you not... Lincoln's not Lux or Creed's age, right? I get that. If they're that little... Lincoln's 11 or 10 at the time, whatever he was.
How can you not get his opinion on it?
How can you not get his opinion on it?
How can you not get his opinion on it?
So he's torn, what do you mean?