Jay Grover
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The Binge.
The Binge.
We were just waking up on that Monday morning, and Tex called Jay. Jay had already gotten out of the bed and gone into the bathroom to get ready for the day, and he had just gotten up and gone in there.
We were just waking up on that Monday morning, and Tex called Jay. Jay had already gotten out of the bed and gone into the bathroom to get ready for the day, and he had just gotten up and gone in there.
And I heard his phone ring. I heard one side of the conversation. Of course, he was in the other room, so I didn't hear word for word what was going on. But I could just tell from the tone, I guess, or... You could sense some reaction, and I knew it wasn't good. I didn't know what it was. I didn't know who the phone call was from. I just knew it wasn't good. My first thought went to Mr. Gorey.
And I heard his phone ring. I heard one side of the conversation. Of course, he was in the other room, so I didn't hear word for word what was going on. But I could just tell from the tone, I guess, or... You could sense some reaction, and I knew it wasn't good. I didn't know what it was. I didn't know who the phone call was from. I just knew it wasn't good. My first thought went to Mr. Gorey.
Something had happened to Mr. Gorey, naturally, just given his age. It was a very short phone call. He came out of the bathroom very quickly, and by that point, I knew something was wrong, so I had already sat up in bed and immediately met him with, what is it? And he said, it's Diane. She's gone. I said, what do you mean she's gone? He said, there was an accident, and she didn't make it.
Something had happened to Mr. Gorey, naturally, just given his age. It was a very short phone call. He came out of the bathroom very quickly, and by that point, I knew something was wrong, so I had already sat up in bed and immediately met him with, what is it? And he said, it's Diane. She's gone. I said, what do you mean she's gone? He said, there was an accident, and she didn't make it.
She's gone. And he said, I got to get to Mr. Quarry. So he was immediately throwing on clothes and out the door. That was all I got.
She's gone. And he said, I got to get to Mr. Quarry. So he was immediately throwing on clothes and out the door. That was all I got.
It was before noon that Jay called me and said it wasn't a car accident. She was shot. And then, of course, my brain's real. I'm like, what do you mean she was shot? We had a million questions. But yeah, at some point that morning before noon, they knew that It was a gun accident and that Tex had done it.
It was before noon that Jay called me and said it wasn't a car accident. She was shot. And then, of course, my brain's real. I'm like, what do you mean she was shot? We had a million questions. But yeah, at some point that morning before noon, they knew that It was a gun accident and that Tex had done it.
He was not forthcoming with exactly what happened and he definitely repeatedly reiterated it was an accident.
He was not forthcoming with exactly what happened and he definitely repeatedly reiterated it was an accident.
So pretty early, pretty early on, I think just literally the not forthcoming of what happened that day when we were delivered the news.
So pretty early, pretty early on, I think just literally the not forthcoming of what happened that day when we were delivered the news.
very quickly into the next day Jay was very much an observer a listener especially in something like this where something was not right you know even if it had been an accident this just wasn't right something this was this was horrible so he was very in tune very very early on trying to get the details the correct details you know pieced together and very quickly
very quickly into the next day Jay was very much an observer a listener especially in something like this where something was not right you know even if it had been an accident this just wasn't right something this was this was horrible so he was very in tune very very early on trying to get the details the correct details you know pieced together and very quickly
to the conclusion that this is not making sense. This is what we're being told. It's not adding up. That coupled with the things texts were saying just weren't making sense. And then his actions. He started doing very strange things that just didn't seem normal for somebody who just lost their spouse for whatever reason. But it was...
to the conclusion that this is not making sense. This is what we're being told. It's not adding up. That coupled with the things texts were saying just weren't making sense. And then his actions. He started doing very strange things that just didn't seem normal for somebody who just lost their spouse for whatever reason. But it was...