Jay Shetty

It was, it was mutual.

The imposter syndrome part, there was definitely a lot of negative self-talk at the start of like, you don't belong here.

You shouldn't be in this room.

Like, oh my God, like.

And I'd freeze a lot and just be like, I'm not even going to say hello to that.

I'm not even going to smile because you're so stressed out.

And I think the self-talk that got away, that helped me get through that, I realized it wasn't self-talk.

It was just showing up and sitting in that discomfort.

There was no self-talk.

And I know that's going to lead to one.

It was just continuing to show up, feeling that discomfort, feeling that uncertainty,

and recognizing that it didn't stop me from connecting smiling meeting being myself uh and and the biggest question i'd always ask myself actually trevor noah said this to me when he came on the show he was like jay you always feel comfortable at all the things you're at and and i wouldn't sense that you don't and i said well that's because i only go to things i feel i have a purpose at and that solved everything to me where i was like if i know why i'm going somewhere

I can show up as my best self.

If I don't know why I'm going there and I kind of think someone thinks I should go there or someone on my team said it would be a good idea, now I hate being there because I'm lost.

Whereas if I know what my purpose is and why I'm standing there, great.

Like I could be alone there.

I could be everyone's best friend there.

I could be anything.

Anyway, sorry, long answer.

No, brilliant answer.