Jeff Tiegs

So when she lost her fiance, she wrote this book through her grieving process and she was questioning who was he and how did he love her?

the mountains more than he loved his family.

And then introspectively, who was she that she loved this man who she knew was putting this pursuit of things in front of her and in front of her family.

And she came to the realization that that was his identity.

He was a high altitude mountaineer.

That's who he was.

And that part of that is what attracted her to him.

That was exciting and it was unique.

And it certainly, you know, there was never a boring moment.

And even in those times of a volatility of a relationship like that, it was something that she sought and she willingly, she didn't know at a time, but as she retrospectively looked at it,

she was willing to lose him.

She was willing to tie herself and bind herself to this man who had this other calling and this other passion.

And I, I recommend this to people who are looking for passion and purpose.

It really solidified what I was seeking in my own life.

And it was that identity.

And then, you know, I kind of started with commando, right?

Cause I,

A high altitude alpinist is exciting.

A commando is exciting.

I don't an assaulter.