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Thank you. There's one other question to kind of take this out a little further because I don't think my son realizes how bad a position he's in. If he pays this over the next 20 or 30 years, he still may not have it paid off and we die. And that's all right. Yeah, but we have all of our assets and our real estate is in trust. And my daughter is the trustee and the executor.
Thank you. There's one other question to kind of take this out a little further because I don't think my son realizes how bad a position he's in. If he pays this over the next 20 or 30 years, he still may not have it paid off and we die. And that's all right. Yeah, but we have all of our assets and our real estate is in trust. And my daughter is the trustee and the executor.
And we currently put a clause in our will that allowed my son to take our house here as part of his settlement of the estate because he loves our home. but I'm concerned that if he doesn't have this paid off, I don't even know that I want to leave that share of the estate to him because I think the IRS could put a lien on that.
And we currently put a clause in our will that allowed my son to take our house here as part of his settlement of the estate because he loves our home. but I'm concerned that if he doesn't have this paid off, I don't even know that I want to leave that share of the estate to him because I think the IRS could put a lien on that.
And we currently put a clause in our will that allowed my son to take our house here as part of his settlement of the estate because he loves our home. but I'm concerned that if he doesn't have this paid off, I don't even know that I want to leave that share of the estate to him because I think the IRS could put a lien on that.
Yeah, and I want to make sure that, I mean, ultimately it was for him, but it's ultimately also to go to our granddaughter, and I don't want to... eat up our share of that estate.
Yeah, and I want to make sure that, I mean, ultimately it was for him, but it's ultimately also to go to our granddaughter, and I don't want to... eat up our share of that estate.
Yeah, and I want to make sure that, I mean, ultimately it was for him, but it's ultimately also to go to our granddaughter, and I don't want to... eat up our share of that estate.
That's the way I'm thinking.
That's the way I'm thinking.
That's the way I'm thinking.
he was not jealous of Danny. He spent a lot of time talking to me through like, it's been a hard, it's been a contentious divorce. I mean, it's been a hard time. And so he would talk to me through things I would be upset about. Um, so, um, sorry, it's going to happen now, I guess. Um,
he was not jealous of Danny. He spent a lot of time talking to me through like, it's been a hard, it's been a contentious divorce. I mean, it's been a hard time. And so he would talk to me through things I would be upset about. Um, so, um, sorry, it's going to happen now, I guess. Um,
he was not jealous of Danny. He spent a lot of time talking to me through like, it's been a hard, it's been a contentious divorce. I mean, it's been a hard time. And so he would talk to me through things I would be upset about. Um, so, um, sorry, it's going to happen now, I guess. Um,
So, you know, I mean, he's a therapist, so he would sit and let me talk for long periods of time about how sad I was about certain things or how upset I was about certain things. And he would just listen and offer ideas of, like, well, what if you tried, like, you know, if it upsets you that you hear from him so often, we have a parenting coordinator.
So, you know, I mean, he's a therapist, so he would sit and let me talk for long periods of time about how sad I was about certain things or how upset I was about certain things. And he would just listen and offer ideas of, like, well, what if you tried, like, you know, if it upsets you that you hear from him so often, we have a parenting coordinator.
So, you know, I mean, he's a therapist, so he would sit and let me talk for long periods of time about how sad I was about certain things or how upset I was about certain things. And he would just listen and offer ideas of, like, well, what if you tried, like, you know, if it upsets you that you hear from him so often, we have a parenting coordinator.
Like, what if you ask the parenting coordinator to only have emails from him like twice a week instead of all day long, every day, five days a week, you know, like he would listen and say, I'm so sorry you're going through this and then offer alternatives. But he was never like, I'm so pissed or, you know, he wasn't, he never showed emotion towards any of this.
Like, what if you ask the parenting coordinator to only have emails from him like twice a week instead of all day long, every day, five days a week, you know, like he would listen and say, I'm so sorry you're going through this and then offer alternatives. But he was never like, I'm so pissed or, you know, he wasn't, he never showed emotion towards any of this.
Like, what if you ask the parenting coordinator to only have emails from him like twice a week instead of all day long, every day, five days a week, you know, like he would listen and say, I'm so sorry you're going through this and then offer alternatives. But he was never like, I'm so pissed or, you know, he wasn't, he never showed emotion towards any of this.