Jefferson Fisher

Just think in your mind. People are going to come up in your mind. Who are the people who have positive influences on you and the way they communicate? Names are going to immediately come to mind. These are people that put a smile on your face when you think about them. Who are the people in that sphere who have positive examples of how they communicate?

Maybe it's they just, they make you feel happy. Maybe they speak kindness. The reason I use positive is because this is what this podcast is. It is a way to build positivity into your life. The good kind of healthy positivity. And right now we're taking a healthy look at what could be some bad factors in your life. Maybe you're having a hard time thinking of somebody.

Maybe it's they just, they make you feel happy. Maybe they speak kindness. The reason I use positive is because this is what this podcast is. It is a way to build positivity into your life. The good kind of healthy positivity. And right now we're taking a healthy look at what could be some bad factors in your life. Maybe you're having a hard time thinking of somebody.

Maybe it's they just, they make you feel happy. Maybe they speak kindness. The reason I use positive is because this is what this podcast is. It is a way to build positivity into your life. The good kind of healthy positivity. And right now we're taking a healthy look at what could be some bad factors in your life. Maybe you're having a hard time thinking of somebody.

Maybe you're around what they call the negative Nancys, the people who always see things as half glass empty, the people that are always doubting you, the people that are always putting you down and therefore you're starting to think differently. Well, I'm really not that cool. I'm not that great. No, don't worry. And you're starting to put yourself less and less and less.

Maybe you're around what they call the negative Nancys, the people who always see things as half glass empty, the people that are always doubting you, the people that are always putting you down and therefore you're starting to think differently. Well, I'm really not that cool. I'm not that great. No, don't worry. And you're starting to put yourself less and less and less.

Maybe you're around what they call the negative Nancys, the people who always see things as half glass empty, the people that are always doubting you, the people that are always putting you down and therefore you're starting to think differently. Well, I'm really not that cool. I'm not that great. No, don't worry. And you're starting to put yourself less and less and less.

Find a person who you want to emulate. Of course, there's going to be people in your life that you just tolerate. in your circle. They're part of the friend group, but they're not really your friend. They're somebody else's friend. Or maybe you just placate them. It's a relative that they're there at the family get-togethers, but you really don't care that they're there.

Find a person who you want to emulate. Of course, there's going to be people in your life that you just tolerate. in your circle. They're part of the friend group, but they're not really your friend. They're somebody else's friend. Or maybe you just placate them. It's a relative that they're there at the family get-togethers, but you really don't care that they're there.

Find a person who you want to emulate. Of course, there's going to be people in your life that you just tolerate. in your circle. They're part of the friend group, but they're not really your friend. They're somebody else's friend. Or maybe you just placate them. It's a relative that they're there at the family get-togethers, but you really don't care that they're there.

They don't care about you, and you don't really care about them. It's part of the exchange. I want you to think of people who make a difference in how they communicate to you and how you want to emulate that. Three, I want you to think of the words that no longer serve you, that no longer serve you.

They don't care about you, and you don't really care about them. It's part of the exchange. I want you to think of people who make a difference in how they communicate to you and how you want to emulate that. Three, I want you to think of the words that no longer serve you, that no longer serve you.

They don't care about you, and you don't really care about them. It's part of the exchange. I want you to think of people who make a difference in how they communicate to you and how you want to emulate that. Three, I want you to think of the words that no longer serve you, that no longer serve you.

Because what I'm asking you to do in this audit of this episode is at the end of it, I'm asking you to find people that raise your level of thinking, raise your level of conversation, raise the level of things that you talk about. My there's somebody who's one of my oldest law school friends. She always had this little sign on her laptop, like the bumper sticker.

Because what I'm asking you to do in this audit of this episode is at the end of it, I'm asking you to find people that raise your level of thinking, raise your level of conversation, raise the level of things that you talk about. My there's somebody who's one of my oldest law school friends. She always had this little sign on her laptop, like the bumper sticker.

Because what I'm asking you to do in this audit of this episode is at the end of it, I'm asking you to find people that raise your level of thinking, raise your level of conversation, raise the level of things that you talk about. My there's somebody who's one of my oldest law school friends. She always had this little sign on her laptop, like the bumper sticker.

And it was it's something along the lines of I get high on intellectual conversations or intelligent conversations. And I always really liked that because. It's, yeah, me saying I like to meet people, make connections, friendships with people that raise my level, raise my standard of what not only I think about myself, but what I communicate, what I talk about.

And it was it's something along the lines of I get high on intellectual conversations or intelligent conversations. And I always really liked that because. It's, yeah, me saying I like to meet people, make connections, friendships with people that raise my level, raise my standard of what not only I think about myself, but what I communicate, what I talk about.

And it was it's something along the lines of I get high on intellectual conversations or intelligent conversations. And I always really liked that because. It's, yeah, me saying I like to meet people, make connections, friendships with people that raise my level, raise my standard of what not only I think about myself, but what I communicate, what I talk about.

If I talk about small things, I will think small things. If I'm around friends that talk about big things, I will talk about big things. If you're around somebody who's always gossiping, always nagging, you know what you're going to do? You're going to get negative and start nagging and get negative.