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Jefferson Fisher

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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

You know those people that go, oh, they're so nice, they're so pleasant. You know why? Because they're generally nice and pleasant. They say nice and pleasant things. If you say, I really like that person, most likely what you mean is they said nice things to you. Rarely do we see the hidden act of kindness from someone. That's rare. Yes, actions can speak louder than words.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

You know those people that go, oh, they're so nice, they're so pleasant. You know why? Because they're generally nice and pleasant. They say nice and pleasant things. If you say, I really like that person, most likely what you mean is they said nice things to you. Rarely do we see the hidden act of kindness from someone. That's rare. Yes, actions can speak louder than words.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

You know those people that go, oh, they're so nice, they're so pleasant. You know why? Because they're generally nice and pleasant. They say nice and pleasant things. If you say, I really like that person, most likely what you mean is they said nice things to you. Rarely do we see the hidden act of kindness from someone. That's rare. Yes, actions can speak louder than words.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

They're not a replacement for them. It's your words. You remember how a friend talked to you when you were on the playground, when you were six years old, and if it brought you up or put you down. You remember it. You remember what your parents said. You remember how your grandparents treated you. Everybody has a memory that is tied to how people's words affected you. They remember it.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

They're not a replacement for them. It's your words. You remember how a friend talked to you when you were on the playground, when you were six years old, and if it brought you up or put you down. You remember it. You remember what your parents said. You remember how your grandparents treated you. Everybody has a memory that is tied to how people's words affected you. They remember it.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

They're not a replacement for them. It's your words. You remember how a friend talked to you when you were on the playground, when you were six years old, and if it brought you up or put you down. You remember it. You remember what your parents said. You remember how your grandparents treated you. Everybody has a memory that is tied to how people's words affected you. They remember it.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

I can remember getting in trouble in PE, which was like our recess kind of class, because this kid and I got in a spat. And I remember the coach coming up and saying, sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you. And I thought, what an odd thing to say. I was like maybe seven. I just remember going, that's such a weird thing to say. That's just not true. Our words matter.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

I can remember getting in trouble in PE, which was like our recess kind of class, because this kid and I got in a spat. And I remember the coach coming up and saying, sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you. And I thought, what an odd thing to say. I was like maybe seven. I just remember going, that's such a weird thing to say. That's just not true. Our words matter.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

I can remember getting in trouble in PE, which was like our recess kind of class, because this kid and I got in a spat. And I remember the coach coming up and saying, sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you. And I thought, what an odd thing to say. I was like maybe seven. I just remember going, that's such a weird thing to say. That's just not true. Our words matter.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

Our words truly matter. So when you choose to say uplifting things rather than negative things, you're going to start and build a legacy, a reputation that is built upon that. You choose the words that you want to make people feel. So your words are who you are. Put in a nutshell, what you say is who you are. People only experience you based on what comes out of your mouth.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

Our words truly matter. So when you choose to say uplifting things rather than negative things, you're going to start and build a legacy, a reputation that is built upon that. You choose the words that you want to make people feel. So your words are who you are. Put in a nutshell, what you say is who you are. People only experience you based on what comes out of your mouth.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

Our words truly matter. So when you choose to say uplifting things rather than negative things, you're going to start and build a legacy, a reputation that is built upon that. You choose the words that you want to make people feel. So your words are who you are. Put in a nutshell, what you say is who you are. People only experience you based on what comes out of your mouth.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

That's really how they base your entire personality. One of these days, every one of us, we're not going to be on this earth anymore. And the people that, when they are at your funeral, and you've been to funerals, all we think about...

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

That's really how they base your entire personality. One of these days, every one of us, we're not going to be on this earth anymore. And the people that, when they are at your funeral, and you've been to funerals, all we think about...

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

That's really how they base your entire personality. One of these days, every one of us, we're not going to be on this earth anymore. And the people that, when they are at your funeral, and you've been to funerals, all we think about...

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

All we think about is how that person made us feel, these conversations that we had with them, these memories that are tied to words and expressions and feelings that are wrapped in conversation, communication. So I would first have the mindset that every single word matters, and I'm going to choose words that uplift. I'm going to choose words that are warm.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

All we think about is how that person made us feel, these conversations that we had with them, these memories that are tied to words and expressions and feelings that are wrapped in conversation, communication. So I would first have the mindset that every single word matters, and I'm going to choose words that uplift. I'm going to choose words that are warm.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

All we think about is how that person made us feel, these conversations that we had with them, these memories that are tied to words and expressions and feelings that are wrapped in conversation, communication. So I would first have the mindset that every single word matters, and I'm going to choose words that uplift. I'm going to choose words that are warm.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

I'm going to choose a tone that is going to uplift them. I like to say that your tone is your trademark. You say, okay, Jefferson, you sound a certain way. Maybe it's my voice makes people feel something or how I treat them. Everybody has a distinct, unique voice that I can never replicate. And you make people feel a certain way. Your tone is your trademark. So how do you want to be remembered?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communication Habits That Build Your Reputation

I'm going to choose a tone that is going to uplift them. I like to say that your tone is your trademark. You say, okay, Jefferson, you sound a certain way. Maybe it's my voice makes people feel something or how I treat them. Everybody has a distinct, unique voice that I can never replicate. And you make people feel a certain way. Your tone is your trademark. So how do you want to be remembered?