Jefferson Fisher

Stop seeing arguments as something to win, but as an opportunity to understand the person behind the words. Stop hearing only what's said and start hearing what's felt. Build the discipline to connect to the person in front of you. Embrace the failures to communicate and learn from them.

Reach success by using each misstep as a stepping stone and make room for more positive and real in your life, like a bear hug from a man who until recently wanted to shop put you. Now, it's highly likely that the themes and the lessons ahead won't be anything new to you. You know you should speak with confidence and control your emotions.

Reach success by using each misstep as a stepping stone and make room for more positive and real in your life, like a bear hug from a man who until recently wanted to shop put you. Now, it's highly likely that the themes and the lessons ahead won't be anything new to you. You know you should speak with confidence and control your emotions.

Reach success by using each misstep as a stepping stone and make room for more positive and real in your life, like a bear hug from a man who until recently wanted to shop put you. Now, it's highly likely that the themes and the lessons ahead won't be anything new to you. You know you should speak with confidence and control your emotions.

You know you should avoid getting defensive and stand up for yourself. The question you have is, yes, but what does that look like? Well, it starts with what you say next. Chapter Summary The person you see isn't the person you're talking to. Every person has a surface and a depth. Often, the emotions you hear in someone's voice are not bids for disagreement, but bids for connection.

You know you should avoid getting defensive and stand up for yourself. The question you have is, yes, but what does that look like? Well, it starts with what you say next. Chapter Summary The person you see isn't the person you're talking to. Every person has a surface and a depth. Often, the emotions you hear in someone's voice are not bids for disagreement, but bids for connection.

You know you should avoid getting defensive and stand up for yourself. The question you have is, yes, but what does that look like? Well, it starts with what you say next. Chapter Summary The person you see isn't the person you're talking to. Every person has a surface and a depth. Often, the emotions you hear in someone's voice are not bids for disagreement, but bids for connection.

Don't buy into the lie that you need to win an argument. When you seek to win, you tend to lose much more, like their trust or respect. Instead, view arguments as a window into another person's struggle. Conflict can be a catalyst for positive changes in your life. To harness it, you have to be willing to connect with the person opposite you.

Don't buy into the lie that you need to win an argument. When you seek to win, you tend to lose much more, like their trust or respect. Instead, view arguments as a window into another person's struggle. Conflict can be a catalyst for positive changes in your life. To harness it, you have to be willing to connect with the person opposite you.

Don't buy into the lie that you need to win an argument. When you seek to win, you tend to lose much more, like their trust or respect. Instead, view arguments as a window into another person's struggle. Conflict can be a catalyst for positive changes in your life. To harness it, you have to be willing to connect with the person opposite you.

Turning your conflicts into connections paves the way for a more fulfilling, meaningful life. All you need is in what you say next.

Turning your conflicts into connections paves the way for a more fulfilling, meaningful life. All you need is in what you say next.

Turning your conflicts into connections paves the way for a more fulfilling, meaningful life. All you need is in what you say next.

Today is a big day, y'all, and it's going to be probably an emotional episode for me, and I'm okay with that. Today, my book, The Next Conversation, Are You Less? Talk More, is released. Today is publication day, my very first publication day, and I cannot be any more excited, thrilled, and honored to give a piece of myself to you.

Today is a big day, y'all, and it's going to be probably an emotional episode for me, and I'm okay with that. Today, my book, The Next Conversation, Are You Less? Talk More, is released. Today is publication day, my very first publication day, and I cannot be any more excited, thrilled, and honored to give a piece of myself to you.

Today is a big day, y'all, and it's going to be probably an emotional episode for me, and I'm okay with that. Today, my book, The Next Conversation, Are You Less? Talk More, is released. Today is publication day, my very first publication day, and I cannot be any more excited, thrilled, and honored to give a piece of myself to you.

If you've enjoyed any of my content at all at any point in time, and I'm assuming you have if you're listening to this podcast, I'm going to ask you to buy and purchase this book. You You can find a link there or you can go to jeffersonfisher.com book. You can find it there or you can just go in the show notes of this episode and you're going to find the link.

If you've enjoyed any of my content at all at any point in time, and I'm assuming you have if you're listening to this podcast, I'm going to ask you to buy and purchase this book. You You can find a link there or you can go to jeffersonfisher.com book. You can find it there or you can just go in the show notes of this episode and you're going to find the link.

If you've enjoyed any of my content at all at any point in time, and I'm assuming you have if you're listening to this podcast, I'm going to ask you to buy and purchase this book. You You can find a link there or you can go to jeffersonfisher.com book. You can find it there or you can just go in the show notes of this episode and you're going to find the link.

Go to your favorite retailer and buy it. And let me tell you why. Because you are investing in your next conversation. There's lots of reasons why I titled it this way. And we're going to talk about that today. But most of the time you've invested in things that you just don't even think about.