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Jefferson Fisher

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

You see how I'm...

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

I'm opening up a blank canvas.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Is there a chance?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

I love that phrase too.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Is there a way?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Is there room for?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Is there a chance?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

So let's play it out.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Let's say I'm you, you're the supervisor and I approach you when there is time for it and it's not something that's rushed and I say, I'd like to talk to you about something that's important to me and I need to know something first.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Is there room for us to have a conversation about my compensation that is separate from the relationship that you and I have and that we're continuing to build?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Period.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Or I guess a question mark.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

So that is very out in front.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

seems also very fair.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Hey, they should be able to separate compensation from relationship to say, hey, this is my security, my compensation, and how I feel valued versus what I know you already and I have, whether it's camaraderie and what we're trying to build, because what you don't want is the money thing to go sour.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

That's one approach.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Number two, let's talk about timing.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Most people feel like they need to have these compensation conversations in just one conversation.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

Meaning we need to talk about my salary right now.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
"My husband won't open up to me" - Answering Your Toughest Questions

And if you don't give me an answer and the answer that I want, the fear from them is that you're gonna leave.