Jemma Sbeg

We are taught to always be ready to compromise and to be flexible and to be good and to meet everyone's needs. And that's great. Fair enough. But I don't think that shouldn't be the case when it comes to trying to find your life partner. Very few decisions are as important. And I think compromise now in the early stages of dating is misery and frustration later on. I wish I'd known that at 21.

I wish I'd known that maybe even at 23. But when we really do start to focus on what do I want? How do I want to be treated? What is my vision for love and what would it take for that to be met? We experience such a huge and powerful shift that not only makes dating fun, it makes it intentional and I think it makes it fruitful as well.

I wish I'd known that maybe even at 23. But when we really do start to focus on what do I want? How do I want to be treated? What is my vision for love and what would it take for that to be met? We experience such a huge and powerful shift that not only makes dating fun, it makes it intentional and I think it makes it fruitful as well.

I wish I'd known that maybe even at 23. But when we really do start to focus on what do I want? How do I want to be treated? What is my vision for love and what would it take for that to be met? We experience such a huge and powerful shift that not only makes dating fun, it makes it intentional and I think it makes it fruitful as well.

So today I want to give you my formula for reclaiming your power in dating. And also talk about why it is that we do lose our agency, why repeated rejection and relationship trauma and a scarcity mindset are some of the reasons dating feels so personally hard. And I want to talk about some of the dating dilemmas that you guys have been facing as well, as well.

So today I want to give you my formula for reclaiming your power in dating. And also talk about why it is that we do lose our agency, why repeated rejection and relationship trauma and a scarcity mindset are some of the reasons dating feels so personally hard. And I want to talk about some of the dating dilemmas that you guys have been facing as well, as well.

So today I want to give you my formula for reclaiming your power in dating. And also talk about why it is that we do lose our agency, why repeated rejection and relationship trauma and a scarcity mindset are some of the reasons dating feels so personally hard. And I want to talk about some of the dating dilemmas that you guys have been facing as well, as well.

people in their 20s some of you reached out with some pretty epic stories some pretty frustrating stories to read from my perspective so i want to talk about exactly how you can bring back your own control how you can be in control of those situations so without further ado my lovely lovely listeners let's get into my guide to reclaiming your power in dating in your 20s and beyond so

people in their 20s some of you reached out with some pretty epic stories some pretty frustrating stories to read from my perspective so i want to talk about exactly how you can bring back your own control how you can be in control of those situations so without further ado my lovely lovely listeners let's get into my guide to reclaiming your power in dating in your 20s and beyond so

people in their 20s some of you reached out with some pretty epic stories some pretty frustrating stories to read from my perspective so i want to talk about exactly how you can bring back your own control how you can be in control of those situations so without further ado my lovely lovely listeners let's get into my guide to reclaiming your power in dating in your 20s and beyond so

I want to start out by talking about a time in my own life when I completely abandoned myself to who I was dating. Essentially because I thought that their approval and if they liked me and if I was good enough for them, that could turn into love and that could make me happy. And spoiler alert, in reality, it actually took me to a very low point.

I want to start out by talking about a time in my own life when I completely abandoned myself to who I was dating. Essentially because I thought that their approval and if they liked me and if I was good enough for them, that could turn into love and that could make me happy. And spoiler alert, in reality, it actually took me to a very low point.

I want to start out by talking about a time in my own life when I completely abandoned myself to who I was dating. Essentially because I thought that their approval and if they liked me and if I was good enough for them, that could turn into love and that could make me happy. And spoiler alert, in reality, it actually took me to a very low point.

And I'm sure a lot of you could probably tell me a similar story. So back in 2021, I was dating like my first really serious boyfriend. And longtime listeners will know that that breakup is really what created the psychology of your 20s. But, you know, he was great. He was a nice guy. It just didn't work. We broke up and he moved on really, really quickly. Quickly, like very quickly.

And I'm sure a lot of you could probably tell me a similar story. So back in 2021, I was dating like my first really serious boyfriend. And longtime listeners will know that that breakup is really what created the psychology of your 20s. But, you know, he was great. He was a nice guy. It just didn't work. We broke up and he moved on really, really quickly. Quickly, like very quickly.

And I'm sure a lot of you could probably tell me a similar story. So back in 2021, I was dating like my first really serious boyfriend. And longtime listeners will know that that breakup is really what created the psychology of your 20s. But, you know, he was great. He was a nice guy. It just didn't work. We broke up and he moved on really, really quickly. Quickly, like very quickly.

And it was this whole story where I was still somewhat under the illusion slash delusion that we were going to get back together. And one of my friends had to be like, hey, he actually has a new girlfriend. I think it just put me into the real painful part of relationship grief very, very quickly.

And it was this whole story where I was still somewhat under the illusion slash delusion that we were going to get back together. And one of my friends had to be like, hey, he actually has a new girlfriend. I think it just put me into the real painful part of relationship grief very, very quickly.

And it was this whole story where I was still somewhat under the illusion slash delusion that we were going to get back together. And one of my friends had to be like, hey, he actually has a new girlfriend. I think it just put me into the real painful part of relationship grief very, very quickly.

I was like, oh, I thought that maybe I would have time that maybe we could still have this shared experience of grieving and missing each other. And suddenly he's moved on. He's on the next he's on to the next person. Like he's he's all good and fine and dandy.