Jemma Sbeg

The individual who, you know, appears not to care, but under the surface is really acting out of anger, either through sarcasm or giving you the cold shoulder or being very indirect and then kind of blaming you for misinterpreting their feelings. They're very prickly. And some would say they have limited consideration for others' feelings. I actually say that it's a protective mechanism. It's like,

They're kind of coming out of their shell and they want you to know what they're feeling, but they don't know how to say it properly and say it with their chest. Finally, we have all out aggressive, the person who says what they want and what they need and they don't care if it makes you angry and they are very forceful. There is no room for compromise with these people.

They're kind of coming out of their shell and they want you to know what they're feeling, but they don't know how to say it properly and say it with their chest. Finally, we have all out aggressive, the person who says what they want and what they need and they don't care if it makes you angry and they are very forceful. There is no room for compromise with these people.

They're kind of coming out of their shell and they want you to know what they're feeling, but they don't know how to say it properly and say it with their chest. Finally, we have all out aggressive, the person who says what they want and what they need and they don't care if it makes you angry and they are very forceful. There is no room for compromise with these people.

They often lash out directly and they intend to hurt you. There is anger and there is dominance. And that's not to be confused with the self-respect of the assertive communicator. I don't think many people benefit from being with an aggressive communicator unless you are also aggressive and you can kind of give it back. Like you can show them the love, the tough love that they are showing you.

They often lash out directly and they intend to hurt you. There is anger and there is dominance. And that's not to be confused with the self-respect of the assertive communicator. I don't think many people benefit from being with an aggressive communicator unless you are also aggressive and you can kind of give it back. Like you can show them the love, the tough love that they are showing you.

They often lash out directly and they intend to hurt you. There is anger and there is dominance. And that's not to be confused with the self-respect of the assertive communicator. I don't think many people benefit from being with an aggressive communicator unless you are also aggressive and you can kind of give it back. Like you can show them the love, the tough love that they are showing you.

And like, I guess at that point they've kind of met their match. But if you're a passive communicator with an aggressive communicator, like there is so much that will forever be left unresolved because your way of approaching your emotions is entirely opposite.

And like, I guess at that point they've kind of met their match. But if you're a passive communicator with an aggressive communicator, like there is so much that will forever be left unresolved because your way of approaching your emotions is entirely opposite.

And like, I guess at that point they've kind of met their match. But if you're a passive communicator with an aggressive communicator, like there is so much that will forever be left unresolved because your way of approaching your emotions is entirely opposite.

You either need to be with another passive communicator so you can kind of see each other's perspective and understand that this is a protective mechanism or an assertive communicator who can be like, no, please tell me. I want to know. I want to get through this together. Same with a passive-aggressive communicator.

You either need to be with another passive communicator so you can kind of see each other's perspective and understand that this is a protective mechanism or an assertive communicator who can be like, no, please tell me. I want to know. I want to get through this together. Same with a passive-aggressive communicator.

You either need to be with another passive communicator so you can kind of see each other's perspective and understand that this is a protective mechanism or an assertive communicator who can be like, no, please tell me. I want to know. I want to get through this together. Same with a passive-aggressive communicator.

They need an assertive communicator to cut through some of the defenses and say, okay, we're going to work this out like adults, like we're going to be big kids about this. And I really want to do a whole episode on how to become a healthy assertive communicator because you can shift how you interpret and express your emotions.

They need an assertive communicator to cut through some of the defenses and say, okay, we're going to work this out like adults, like we're going to be big kids about this. And I really want to do a whole episode on how to become a healthy assertive communicator because you can shift how you interpret and express your emotions.

They need an assertive communicator to cut through some of the defenses and say, okay, we're going to work this out like adults, like we're going to be big kids about this. And I really want to do a whole episode on how to become a healthy assertive communicator because you can shift how you interpret and express your emotions.

it's a bit too much for this episode but you know beyond communication I do think you need a similar style of emotional processing and this is kind of reflected in that emotional communication style but it also comes down to are you reactive or do you like are you reactive or you someone who contemplates what you're going to do next do you need to talk through your emotions or feel them physically do you need space from your emotions or do you want to manage them straight away

it's a bit too much for this episode but you know beyond communication I do think you need a similar style of emotional processing and this is kind of reflected in that emotional communication style but it also comes down to are you reactive or do you like are you reactive or you someone who contemplates what you're going to do next do you need to talk through your emotions or feel them physically do you need space from your emotions or do you want to manage them straight away

it's a bit too much for this episode but you know beyond communication I do think you need a similar style of emotional processing and this is kind of reflected in that emotional communication style but it also comes down to are you reactive or do you like are you reactive or you someone who contemplates what you're going to do next do you need to talk through your emotions or feel them physically do you need space from your emotions or do you want to manage them straight away

I think if you feel your emotions in a way that complements each other, this is a really beautiful sign of compatibility. You know, one person may go silent, the other person gives reassurance and you swap. Someone who wants to respond immediately is with someone who is okay with taking time and you learn how to operate with those different styles together.