Jemma Sbeg

The conversation is effortless. You are independent, but you share values. Your emotional processing styles complement each other. And last but certainly not least, they make you laugh. Knowing this is one thing, but how can we use it to almost stress test our relationship? How do we use it as a litmus test when perhaps we are a bit blinded by early feelings of passion and attraction?

The conversation is effortless. You are independent, but you share values. Your emotional processing styles complement each other. And last but certainly not least, they make you laugh. Knowing this is one thing, but how can we use it to almost stress test our relationship? How do we use it as a litmus test when perhaps we are a bit blinded by early feelings of passion and attraction?

The conversation is effortless. You are independent, but you share values. Your emotional processing styles complement each other. And last but certainly not least, they make you laugh. Knowing this is one thing, but how can we use it to almost stress test our relationship? How do we use it as a litmus test when perhaps we are a bit blinded by early feelings of passion and attraction?

So I want to give you a little bit of a checklist here. These are questions that I would be asking myself if I was dating again. When I see them, do I feel anxious or at ease? Do our interactions either in person or online or over text leave me feeling uneasy or confused? Do I find myself having to think about things to discuss with them? Am I hyper aware of silences when we're together?

So I want to give you a little bit of a checklist here. These are questions that I would be asking myself if I was dating again. When I see them, do I feel anxious or at ease? Do our interactions either in person or online or over text leave me feeling uneasy or confused? Do I find myself having to think about things to discuss with them? Am I hyper aware of silences when we're together?

So I want to give you a little bit of a checklist here. These are questions that I would be asking myself if I was dating again. When I see them, do I feel anxious or at ease? Do our interactions either in person or online or over text leave me feeling uneasy or confused? Do I find myself having to think about things to discuss with them? Am I hyper aware of silences when we're together?

Are there conversations that I'm avoiding because I know that we'll disagree? Do I feel like my entire life is now focused on this person or are there still things that I love to do separately? Do they help me with my emotions or make them worse? Would I bring up an issue with them and know that it's something we can work through?

Are there conversations that I'm avoiding because I know that we'll disagree? Do I feel like my entire life is now focused on this person or are there still things that I love to do separately? Do they help me with my emotions or make them worse? Would I bring up an issue with them and know that it's something we can work through?

Are there conversations that I'm avoiding because I know that we'll disagree? Do I feel like my entire life is now focused on this person or are there still things that I love to do separately? Do they help me with my emotions or make them worse? Would I bring up an issue with them and know that it's something we can work through?

And finally, when was the last time they made me full on laugh out loud, roll on the floor laughter? However you answered, you know, this isn't graded based on a yes or no answer. You know, there really isn't any right or wrong answer, although there's one that's definitely preferable.

And finally, when was the last time they made me full on laugh out loud, roll on the floor laughter? However you answered, you know, this isn't graded based on a yes or no answer. You know, there really isn't any right or wrong answer, although there's one that's definitely preferable.

And finally, when was the last time they made me full on laugh out loud, roll on the floor laughter? However you answered, you know, this isn't graded based on a yes or no answer. You know, there really isn't any right or wrong answer, although there's one that's definitely preferable.

I just think that these questions reveal some additional things for you to consider, especially when you're in the early days. And you can look past these things if you want. You can decide that it's not a deal breaker to be uncomfortable when you're silent around them.

I just think that these questions reveal some additional things for you to consider, especially when you're in the early days. And you can look past these things if you want. You can decide that it's not a deal breaker to be uncomfortable when you're silent around them.

I just think that these questions reveal some additional things for you to consider, especially when you're in the early days. And you can look past these things if you want. You can decide that it's not a deal breaker to be uncomfortable when you're silent around them.

You can decide that it's not a deal breaker that sometimes you feel a bit emotional or that it's not a deal breaker that you can't bring up an issue with them. But I would ask why you think that is the case.

You can decide that it's not a deal breaker that sometimes you feel a bit emotional or that it's not a deal breaker that you can't bring up an issue with them. But I would ask why you think that is the case.

You can decide that it's not a deal breaker that sometimes you feel a bit emotional or that it's not a deal breaker that you can't bring up an issue with them. But I would ask why you think that is the case.

And is it just because you are compromising on what you really want and what's going to make the relationship last in the long term for the short term spark and the short term assurance that this person really, really likes you? Now, there is not a single relationship out there that has not experienced doubts that has not come across some very existential question of should we be together?

And is it just because you are compromising on what you really want and what's going to make the relationship last in the long term for the short term spark and the short term assurance that this person really, really likes you? Now, there is not a single relationship out there that has not experienced doubts that has not come across some very existential question of should we be together?