Jemma Sbeg
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And obviously, it's not just birth order theory. It's a lot of other factors that have contributed to us being together. But, you know, like he has older sisters, so that probably also helped. But, you know, when I hear this idea of like eldest daughters, younger sons, I'm always like, oh, I hate to say it, but it applies.
only children and last borns so only children and youngest children also balance each other out really really well for some reason so I heard this really fascinating interview with this psychologist and she was talking about why this is the case and she said it really has to do with the fact that first borns and only children are kind of cut from the same cloth so if you're a youngest child and you like eldest children like that's who you kind of end up dating a lot of
only children and last borns so only children and youngest children also balance each other out really really well for some reason so I heard this really fascinating interview with this psychologist and she was talking about why this is the case and she said it really has to do with the fact that first borns and only children are kind of cut from the same cloth so if you're a youngest child and you like eldest children like that's who you kind of end up dating a lot of
only children and last borns so only children and youngest children also balance each other out really really well for some reason so I heard this really fascinating interview with this psychologist and she was talking about why this is the case and she said it really has to do with the fact that first borns and only children are kind of cut from the same cloth so if you're a youngest child and you like eldest children like that's who you kind of end up dating a lot of
Only children are very, very similar. They're very self-reliant. They're expected to succeed. And then you have the younger child who brings like the liveliness and the creativity to the relationship. So again, it helps, it counteracts in a really specific way. So I think whilst, you know, younger siblings are very much risk takers, they're entrepreneurial.
Only children are very, very similar. They're very self-reliant. They're expected to succeed. And then you have the younger child who brings like the liveliness and the creativity to the relationship. So again, it helps, it counteracts in a really specific way. So I think whilst, you know, younger siblings are very much risk takers, they're entrepreneurial.
Only children are very, very similar. They're very self-reliant. They're expected to succeed. And then you have the younger child who brings like the liveliness and the creativity to the relationship. So again, it helps, it counteracts in a really specific way. So I think whilst, you know, younger siblings are very much risk takers, they're entrepreneurial.
Sometimes they also kind of fly by the seat of their pants and, Um, that kind of makes it chaotic if two youngest siblings are dating because someone needs to be, have that kind of organizational part of their brain at the forefront. Like someone needs to be somewhat forward thinking, somewhat responsible. And if you have like two youngest siblings together, yeah, it can be explosive.
Sometimes they also kind of fly by the seat of their pants and, Um, that kind of makes it chaotic if two youngest siblings are dating because someone needs to be, have that kind of organizational part of their brain at the forefront. Like someone needs to be somewhat forward thinking, somewhat responsible. And if you have like two youngest siblings together, yeah, it can be explosive.
Sometimes they also kind of fly by the seat of their pants and, Um, that kind of makes it chaotic if two youngest siblings are dating because someone needs to be, have that kind of organizational part of their brain at the forefront. Like someone needs to be somewhat forward thinking, somewhat responsible. And if you have like two youngest siblings together, yeah, it can be explosive.
Like you're both risk takers, you're both outgoing, but sometimes you need like that anchor, right? So that is what birth order theory and position might mean for dating. Again, this is not a restrictive rule. If you can find someone that you love and you care about, like, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter where they were born, who they were, like, what position in the family.
Like you're both risk takers, you're both outgoing, but sometimes you need like that anchor, right? So that is what birth order theory and position might mean for dating. Again, this is not a restrictive rule. If you can find someone that you love and you care about, like, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter where they were born, who they were, like, what position in the family.
Like you're both risk takers, you're both outgoing, but sometimes you need like that anchor, right? So that is what birth order theory and position might mean for dating. Again, this is not a restrictive rule. If you can find someone that you love and you care about, like, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter where they were born, who they were, like, what position in the family.
Like, that kind of love is rare enough. So don't listen to this and look at your own life and say, oh, my God, I'm dating a youngest child. And I am a youngest child. Like, we should break up. No, please don't do that. Please don't do that because of me, because it's like, it's one of many, many things. So we've already spoken about how youngest children take more risks.
Like, that kind of love is rare enough. So don't listen to this and look at your own life and say, oh, my God, I'm dating a youngest child. And I am a youngest child. Like, we should break up. No, please don't do that. Please don't do that because of me, because it's like, it's one of many, many things. So we've already spoken about how youngest children take more risks.
Like, that kind of love is rare enough. So don't listen to this and look at your own life and say, oh, my God, I'm dating a youngest child. And I am a youngest child. Like, we should break up. No, please don't do that. Please don't do that because of me, because it's like, it's one of many, many things. So we've already spoken about how youngest children take more risks.
So that makes them, you know, business leaders, startup founders, quite entrepreneurial. But really, there haven't been any long term studies on birth order and career prospects, which is I don't know. I think that that would be really phenomenal for all like the somewhat controversy around birth order theory. I feel like a study like that could really maybe silence or prove some of the doubts.
So that makes them, you know, business leaders, startup founders, quite entrepreneurial. But really, there haven't been any long term studies on birth order and career prospects, which is I don't know. I think that that would be really phenomenal for all like the somewhat controversy around birth order theory. I feel like a study like that could really maybe silence or prove some of the doubts.
So that makes them, you know, business leaders, startup founders, quite entrepreneurial. But really, there haven't been any long term studies on birth order and career prospects, which is I don't know. I think that that would be really phenomenal for all like the somewhat controversy around birth order theory. I feel like a study like that could really maybe silence or prove some of the doubts.
And it would be so fascinating to do like a longitudinal research study where you interview like people at 12, at 19 and then at 30 or some point in time and see what careers they ended up getting. choosing. But looking at our profile again of youngest children, they're outgoing, social, rebellious, rule changes, charming, maybe a little bit attention seeking.