Jemma Sbeg
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Separation between the parents or even your siblings, whether it's through solo traveling, whether it is through moving away, whether it is just through spending a little bit less time with them.
Separation between the parents or even your siblings, whether it's through solo traveling, whether it is through moving away, whether it is just through spending a little bit less time with them.
A lot of youngest children that I've spoken to or that I've heard speak about this in interviews have been like, that was the real thing that helped me break out of like the stereotype that my own family was kind of perpetrating. The next big thing that I think we need to address is the sense of competition and comparison. That's a hard one.
A lot of youngest children that I've spoken to or that I've heard speak about this in interviews have been like, that was the real thing that helped me break out of like the stereotype that my own family was kind of perpetrating. The next big thing that I think we need to address is the sense of competition and comparison. That's a hard one.
A lot of youngest children that I've spoken to or that I've heard speak about this in interviews have been like, that was the real thing that helped me break out of like the stereotype that my own family was kind of perpetrating. The next big thing that I think we need to address is the sense of competition and comparison. That's a hard one.
And it's not like it's comparison with a random stranger on the internet. Like you can't really say to yourself, oh, there's gaps in that narrative because the chances are is that you know what's happening with your eldest and older siblings. That's what makes the comparison sting even more is that they are such a close counterpart to you. What I say to this is this. What I say to this is this.
And it's not like it's comparison with a random stranger on the internet. Like you can't really say to yourself, oh, there's gaps in that narrative because the chances are is that you know what's happening with your eldest and older siblings. That's what makes the comparison sting even more is that they are such a close counterpart to you. What I say to this is this. What I say to this is this.
And it's not like it's comparison with a random stranger on the internet. Like you can't really say to yourself, oh, there's gaps in that narrative because the chances are is that you know what's happening with your eldest and older siblings. That's what makes the comparison sting even more is that they are such a close counterpart to you. What I say to this is this. What I say to this is this.
This is what I want to say about it. Like I said, it can feel like there is this constant marker like ahead of you that you can never catch up to because of your age. I want you to really, really sit and reflect on what it is you're chasing and what is this end goal that you're working towards. Because when you really start to think about it, what you're really chasing is someone else's journey.
This is what I want to say about it. Like I said, it can feel like there is this constant marker like ahead of you that you can never catch up to because of your age. I want you to really, really sit and reflect on what it is you're chasing and what is this end goal that you're working towards. Because when you really start to think about it, what you're really chasing is someone else's journey.
This is what I want to say about it. Like I said, it can feel like there is this constant marker like ahead of you that you can never catch up to because of your age. I want you to really, really sit and reflect on what it is you're chasing and what is this end goal that you're working towards. Because when you really start to think about it, what you're really chasing is someone else's journey.
But also it's like this race to an imaginary finish line. And the imaginary finish line is like the end of your life. So it's okay to take things a little bit slower. And just remember that like it's not about timelines. It's not about what other people are doing. This is really like all you have. Like your journey and your life is all you have. And you are...
But also it's like this race to an imaginary finish line. And the imaginary finish line is like the end of your life. So it's okay to take things a little bit slower. And just remember that like it's not about timelines. It's not about what other people are doing. This is really like all you have. Like your journey and your life is all you have. And you are...
But also it's like this race to an imaginary finish line. And the imaginary finish line is like the end of your life. So it's okay to take things a little bit slower. And just remember that like it's not about timelines. It's not about what other people are doing. This is really like all you have. Like your journey and your life is all you have. And you are...
totally entitled to figure it out as you go along, to take your time, to do things that are different, regardless of, you know, if your whole family is very academic and you decide you want to go do something else, like that's okay. If your whole family are creatives and you've decided you want to be an accountant, like that's also okay.
totally entitled to figure it out as you go along, to take your time, to do things that are different, regardless of, you know, if your whole family is very academic and you decide you want to go do something else, like that's okay. If your whole family are creatives and you've decided you want to be an accountant, like that's also okay.
totally entitled to figure it out as you go along, to take your time, to do things that are different, regardless of, you know, if your whole family is very academic and you decide you want to go do something else, like that's okay. If your whole family are creatives and you've decided you want to be an accountant, like that's also okay.
You're allowed to assert your own preferences for your life and follow them deeply and commit to them deeply, even if there is this person ahead of you who you think that you should be like. That's their journey. That's their experience. Don't let their experience overshadow the one that you want to have as well. My final reflection is that youngest children face a lot of unique challenges.
You're allowed to assert your own preferences for your life and follow them deeply and commit to them deeply, even if there is this person ahead of you who you think that you should be like. That's their journey. That's their experience. Don't let their experience overshadow the one that you want to have as well. My final reflection is that youngest children face a lot of unique challenges.
You're allowed to assert your own preferences for your life and follow them deeply and commit to them deeply, even if there is this person ahead of you who you think that you should be like. That's their journey. That's their experience. Don't let their experience overshadow the one that you want to have as well. My final reflection is that youngest children face a lot of unique challenges.