Jen Cohen

But for people who, like, appreciate bold bluntness all day, you know?

That's a problem.

I mean, but that's what they should be working on, in my opinion.

Yeah.

But you said something earlier that I think is very valuable for people to know and listen to, is that when you're so focused solely on your physical appearance, that comes and goes.

So that's the first issue, right?

You have to build your... I find sometimes the most sexy, beautiful people are not necessarily the most physically beautiful, but it's their attitude, it's their confidence, it's the way they carry themselves and hold themselves.

That makes all the difference, right?

You could have the most beautiful 10 out of 10 woman in front of me or man or whatever.

But if they are insecure and have a low self-esteem and uncomfortable in their own skin, that 10 becomes a 2 really quickly.

Is that similar?

Let's talk, because that's a good segue into one of the things that you talk about in the book as one of the red flags in an area, which, by the way, there's like so much stuff in the book that I want to talk about and then stuff out of the book.

I have to, I think what I'm going to do actually is use my phone with the questions because it's easier for me to look at.

So don't think I'm being rude, please, when I'm doing it.

How is she going to?

Oh, but the content is so amazing that, I mean, because Sadia, she developed 10 questions for every therapist to ask their patient and or their partner to ask their other partner.

And it's basically called the red flag indication.

Yeah, red flag indicators.

Yeah, red flag indicators, which I think,

When I went through these questions, they were brilliant.