Jennelle Gordon

But I'm sure you schedule it, right?

If it doesn't go on your calendar, does it happen?

People are like, I don't want to schedule sex.

It should be natural.

Well, that's why you're not having it.

And that's why marriage isn't in divorce.

And the number one reason, or it goes vacillates between one and two, is infidelity.

Men aren't getting sex.

So they're going out and finding it.

So if you have to schedule it until you make it a habit where it just happens automatically, like you brush your teeth every morning, then you have to do it.

The last thing I would say is don't be idle together, meaning what most people do in relationships.

Right.

You get off work.

You go home.

You might be watching SportsCenter.

She might be scrolling through the feed.

And you call that hanging out.

Right.

And that is what most people do in relationships today.

That's the number one thing that weakens polarity is just spending idle time where you're not both present, connected, vulnerable with each other, and actively doing something.