Jennelle Gordon

Maybe they don't feel like desired and they don't feel like they're being ravished emotionally because, you know, women connect emotionally, right?

Versus sexually where men connect sexually.

And so the tantrics had this philosophy that like,

If a woman is suppressing, you know, her voice, her needs, her desires, that there's a spot right here in the throat chakra, this is where the throat chakra sits, that when you deep throat, that gets activated.

So, you know, we have nadis and energy centers all over the body and one of them's here.

So when a woman actually can do deep throating with her partner's lingam, that that actually can heal trauma.

It can release untrapped emotions.

It can also, the unsuppressed desires and emotional release that can happen in deep throating is immense.

The other thing that I think is really important for you to understand is that

When you had sex with your partner, when you have sex with her, think about if you tune everything out and you just go into the sound.

Sound is powerful, right?

It's a frequency, right?

What kind of sounds are you hearing from your spouse when you're having sex?

Have you ever thought about that?

Like, no.

Not really.

Okay.

So you're hearing like the same typically types of sounds.

A lot of times, like I said, it's unsuppressed and it's stuck.

And they're not fully expressing what they're feeling in sex, in lovemaking, if you will, through their voice.