Jennie Garth

Because everyone thinks that everybody else has got it all going.

They've got everything together.

They're ahead of us in some way, shape, or form.

And it's just not true.

Well, it's definitely different.

One of my daughters is completely on her own, independent in every aspect.

Actually, kind of two of them.

And then my 19-year-old is in college and still comes to me for money all the time.

And we talk about, like, figure out what your priorities are and focus on, you know, think about your monthly budget.

And I'm really trying to set her up for success, although I'm very...

week when it comes to saying no to, you know, she wants to get her nails done or whatever.

She knows her father's probably not going to say, oh, sure, here's some money for that because he just doesn't get it.

Mm-hmm.

Comparison is natural, but it's a way to allow our minds to sort of derail us.

And so I'm the one that's usually, you know, Venmoing, Apple paying all day long with that one.

You've probably heard of compare despair, you know, scrolling on whatever platform you're looking at.

But still trying to teach her and trying to have her get a part time job so she can feel that independence because it's very important.

I remember before I was an actress, I had, you know, starting with walking the bean fields.

it can breed insecurity and you're, you know, wanting to compare yourself to other people's and why am I not doing that?

I worked as a secretary in a real estate office.