Jennifer Breheny Wallace

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550 appearances 3 recordings 2 series first heard Jan 2026 last heard 21 May

Jennifer Breheny Wallace’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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That's number one.

And then number two, I would say ask yourself if you're investing in your friendships.

Finding one or two people in your life that you can open up to, that you can be vulnerable with, and who will be vulnerable with you.

Those relationships feed our sense of mattering.

They remind us that we matter for who we are.

Yeah, so mattering is a deep human need that we inherited from our earliest ancestors.

It's an evolutionary need.

We need to know that we are valued by our band or our group.

And so when we are made to feel like we don't matter, we will act out in ways as if to say, oh, I don't matter.

I'll show you I matter.

And that is what road rage is, right?

Somebody feels cut off, either literally or figuratively.

And so they are asserting their sense of mattering.

Oh, I will show you I matter.

So it's almost like demanding attention, demanding it.

Once you see the world through the lens of mattering, you cannot unsee it.

You will see that when people are rude to you, incivility, these are signs that they are struggling with a sense of mattering themselves.

I'm not saying to let people off the hook, but I'm saying instead of getting furious and judgmental when people are acting out,

you might get curious.

Are they feeling like they don't matter?

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