Jess Rickey

I see how your path of logic took you there.

Yes, yes.

But also like if you raise that conversation and, you know, you've had it and your mum has said, well, this is how I feel, who are you to hammer it down otherwise is kind of how I feel about it.

Yeah.

And I know that that might not be very fair or very equitable, but that is honestly just truthfully how I feel.

Yeah, we did get a lot of other perspectives from the community on Instagram as well.

So we obviously popped up the dilemma and then we said, if one sibling has received more financial help during life, should that be factored into the will?

I found this very interesting.

59% of people said yes, it should.

41% of people said no.

Interesting.

Okay, maybe it depends.

Yeah.

Then we said, how would you approach this conversation with your mum without it turning into conflict?

58% of people said, I would have an honest chat and explain my feelings.

36% of people said, honestly, I'd avoid it altogether.

And 6% of people said, I would bring in a third party like a financial advisor.

Mm-hmm.

I don't know that a financial advisor would really be much help in this situation.

No.