Jess Rickey

Maybe they helped with school.

I don't know, whatever.

If they met all of your needs, that's kind of where their obligations end.

And I guess that's a whole bigger conversation around, well, when you bring a child into the world, what are your responsibilities?

But

But they've done their job and I guess they are going above and beyond for your sibling and I fully acknowledge that that would be really frustrating to observe and it kind of sucks because you're like, well, I would use that money too, but you're not entitled to it.

And it is...

It feels like kind of a jerk move to say, hey, mum, when you die, I want more of your money than my sibling.

It just feels gross.

Like I don't like it.

Totally.

It makes me very uncomfortable.

I agree.

I see how your path of logic took you there.

Yes, yes.

But also like if you raise that conversation and, you know, you've had it and your mum has said, well, this is how I feel, who are you to hammer it down otherwise is kind of how I feel about it.

Yeah.

And I know that that might not be very fair or very equitable, but that is honestly just truthfully how I feel.

Yeah, we did get a lot of other perspectives from the community on Instagram as well.

So we obviously popped up the dilemma and then we said, if one sibling has received more financial help during life, should that be factored into the will?