Jess Rickey

Yeah.

You know, and is that financial support enabling poor behaviour or poor choices?

But again, that's not your choice.

Ultimately, that's the mum's choice.

Somebody else has said, it's not your will and therefore it's not your business.

Someone said, why are you thinking about a will?

It's her money and let her spend it.

You shouldn't be getting any, which is an aggressive take, but I can understand.

Someone else has said, parents have worked hard for their money and they should be able to do with it what they want.

Yes, very true.

Which I agree with.

Yes.

On the flip side, every now and then there's peppered in an alternative perspective.

Someone said, keep records and lawyer up when the will gets enforced or have an awkward conversation now.

Yeah, okay.

So it sounds like they would be pursuing it either way and are saying, well, having the conversation now is less painful, arguably, than going through the drama of lawyers and court and all those sorts of things.

That's true.

Yeah.

Somebody said people need to stop thinking about the money of any inheritance is theirs.

If you receive it, great.