Jesse

But the fact of the matter is, and what I'm calling about is, is I found some conversations that were hurtful and made me take a step back and realize that marriage is very challenging. Even when you seem to do everything right and everything feels right and then you find out that... for a year or two, your, your spouse is making some inappropriate jokes, just a handful, you know, just a dozen.

But the fact of the matter is, and what I'm calling about is, is I found some conversations that were hurtful and made me take a step back and realize that marriage is very challenging. Even when you seem to do everything right and everything feels right and then you find out that... for a year or two, your, your spouse is making some inappropriate jokes, just a handful, you know, just a dozen.

But the fact of the matter is, and what I'm calling about is, is I found some conversations that were hurtful and made me take a step back and realize that marriage is very challenging. Even when you seem to do everything right and everything feels right and then you find out that... for a year or two, your, your spouse is making some inappropriate jokes, just a handful, you know, just a dozen.

Um, but you know, it, it, I just can't, I, to me, it hurts if it doesn't bother other people, you know, they can go live their life. That's right.

Um, but you know, it, it, I just can't, I, to me, it hurts if it doesn't bother other people, you know, they can go live their life. That's right.

Um, but you know, it, it, I just can't, I, to me, it hurts if it doesn't bother other people, you know, they can go live their life. That's right.

Well, I appreciate the apology. I also think, you know, in your defense, me and you may have been headed to the Rocky Mountains, and we got on the train in the Great Plains, and we got to the next station, and we're like, hey, there's no mountains. We're just not there yet. I think the conversation ended prematurely, and maybe we would have got there if there was more.

Well, I appreciate the apology. I also think, you know, in your defense, me and you may have been headed to the Rocky Mountains, and we got on the train in the Great Plains, and we got to the next station, and we're like, hey, there's no mountains. We're just not there yet. I think the conversation ended prematurely, and maybe we would have got there if there was more.

Well, I appreciate the apology. I also think, you know, in your defense, me and you may have been headed to the Rocky Mountains, and we got on the train in the Great Plains, and we got to the next station, and we're like, hey, there's no mountains. We're just not there yet. I think the conversation ended prematurely, and maybe we would have got there if there was more.

It went well. My biggest complaint today, and I guess the reason I'm back on the show, is because she did break down and apologize, wrote me a letter, realized she took our marriage for granted and didn't, you know, said some inappropriate things, kind of, you know, blamed it on, you know, a little bit of alcohol, a little bit of wanting to get a rise out of some people.

It went well. My biggest complaint today, and I guess the reason I'm back on the show, is because she did break down and apologize, wrote me a letter, realized she took our marriage for granted and didn't, you know, said some inappropriate things, kind of, you know, blamed it on, you know, a little bit of alcohol, a little bit of wanting to get a rise out of some people.

It went well. My biggest complaint today, and I guess the reason I'm back on the show, is because she did break down and apologize, wrote me a letter, realized she took our marriage for granted and didn't, you know, said some inappropriate things, kind of, you know, blamed it on, you know, a little bit of alcohol, a little bit of wanting to get a rise out of some people.

And we've had several conversations since. I mean, some of them have been productive, and some of them have been, you know, maybe after a little too much alcohol again, and we just run in circles. But I'm just not getting the closure that I want to get to move on. I continue to wake up at night, which is unusual for me.

And we've had several conversations since. I mean, some of them have been productive, and some of them have been, you know, maybe after a little too much alcohol again, and we just run in circles. But I'm just not getting the closure that I want to get to move on. I continue to wake up at night, which is unusual for me.

And we've had several conversations since. I mean, some of them have been productive, and some of them have been, you know, maybe after a little too much alcohol again, and we just run in circles. But I'm just not getting the closure that I want to get to move on. I continue to wake up at night, which is unusual for me.

But for the last month or so, I mean, I just wake up every night, stare out the window, because I can't seem to get the closure. Because one thing that I've heard you say before is, you know, you have to come to these conversations willing to be vulnerable and willing to accept the fact that there's a chance that the other person will leave. I don't think we're in that conversation, but...

But for the last month or so, I mean, I just wake up every night, stare out the window, because I can't seem to get the closure. Because one thing that I've heard you say before is, you know, you have to come to these conversations willing to be vulnerable and willing to accept the fact that there's a chance that the other person will leave. I don't think we're in that conversation, but...

But for the last month or so, I mean, I just wake up every night, stare out the window, because I can't seem to get the closure. Because one thing that I've heard you say before is, you know, you have to come to these conversations willing to be vulnerable and willing to accept the fact that there's a chance that the other person will leave. I don't think we're in that conversation, but...

I don't feel like I'm getting the full vulnerability or the full admittance of guilt. Not that I want to shame her once again. I mean, I just have to say that again and again. But I need her to say, I've done this. This is why I did it. I don't know why she said those things other than a joke. And that doesn't seem like a justifiable thing.

I don't feel like I'm getting the full vulnerability or the full admittance of guilt. Not that I want to shame her once again. I mean, I just have to say that again and again. But I need her to say, I've done this. This is why I did it. I don't know why she said those things other than a joke. And that doesn't seem like a justifiable thing.