Jessi

I've told him and he says they're not even spirited and he's just joking, but it's hurtful and I can't get past it. And I, I don't know what to do to make him see my side because I feel like if he could understand that his impact was not matching his intent, then he wouldn't be making the joke. But it's been a real sticking point in our relationship and I really don't know what to do.

I've told him and he says they're not even spirited and he's just joking, but it's hurtful and I can't get past it. And I, I don't know what to do to make him see my side because I feel like if he could understand that his impact was not matching his intent, then he wouldn't be making the joke. But it's been a real sticking point in our relationship and I really don't know what to do.

So if you have any advice, please help me out.

So if you have any advice, please help me out.