Jessica Ricci

So when I heard her say that,

oh, basically my husband's letting me do all this stuff and I feel kind of guilty because whenever I try to get him involved, he doesn't want to be involved.

Yeah, no, I agree.

I don't have a lot to add here because as I said before, I resonate with that.

And historically, what I've done is be like, hey, Steve, I feel like I'm making all the decisions here.

Like, did you have anything to add?

Like, what are you thinking?

And most of the time when it's about stuff like that, he's like,

oh I don't care and I'll be like yeah but surely you care he's like no no no like I think you're making good decisions like I don't need to get involved like I'm across it you should care because it impacts you yeah care more and then I'm annoyed when he does care too much and I'm like

But I didn't want it in pink.

I wanted it in blue.

What are you talking about?

Imagine.

But literally, like I would, as you said, Jess, you're absolved of any guilt if he doesn't want to be involved and you've been like, hey, what's going on?

And then to Bec's comment, but do you feel anger?

Because that's different than guilt.

And it's also valid.

Yes.

Very valid.

Yes.