Jessica Wynn

And tenting is why it can feel shallow when you're putting in a tampon, but can accommodate a well-endowed partner.

So since the vaginal canal is highly elastic with arousal, it can comfortably accommodate a large partner.

And when that stimulus isn't there anymore, it naturally returns to its resting state.

So, yes, you can get used to a bigger partner.

But if you break up, your body adapts right back.

There's no permanent change.

There's no damage.

There's no downgrade.

Sex isn't stretching a vagina out like an old sweater.

definitely not a thing we're not going to get into it but of course there can also be damage if there's trauma if there's forced penetration you're not aroused so that can cause different problems but just generally speaking that's not a thing so any anxiety about that that's their ego it's not about her anatomy the vagina is a muscle i assure you it's not memory foam

And it responds to what's happening in the moment.

So the goal isn't tight.

It's comfortable, aroused, pain-free sex.

For everybody.

And anatomy varies, for sure, just like penises vary.

So vulvas come in every shape, size, color, and hairstyle.

But we've created this idea of one perfect, like, porn vulva, and that's harmful.

And preferences are fine, but shame isn't.

And the clitoris matters here, too.

It's a complex, erectile structure that swells during arousal.