Jessica

So just trying to figure out how to navigate this.

Yeah, me too.

I mean...

I wouldn't so much say guilt.

Something similar actually did happen to me.

I'm 40.

And when I was in the fifth grade, I went to a sleepover and somebody had put on a porno and it was very traumatizing and I never told my parents.

And so my biggest thing was I was so happy that she was able to tell me because I carried as a child a lot of shame and guilt over that for years because my

I was very conservative, Christian home, and I felt like I had done something wrong.

So I'm very glad that she was able to tell me, and I told her, it was not your fault.

But yeah, I was mad at myself.

I said, this is why I don't let her do this.

But I also don't want her to now stop telling me things, because if I now don't let her, then it's like, well, if I just hadn't told her, then I would be able to go.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And there was luckily after that sleepover, it did the host's daughter also told her.

And there was a big group thing that went out and, you know, a bunch of every mom was on it.

And there was a consensus like going forward, no phones after 9 p.m.