Jillian Turecki

Ich wusste nicht, was das war. Ich wollte auch verheiratet werden. Und ich endete mit dem Mann zu treffen, der mein Mann werden würde und dann mein Ex-Mann. Und ich, weißt du, ich dachte, weil ich ihn um 37 Jahre alt hatte, dachte ich, dass das ein bisschen später in der Leben und ich hatte viele romantische Erfahrungen und Romantik wie Beziehungen.

Und ich dachte, ich bin matur, ich weiß, was ich will. Und es war einfach... Die Beziehung war in vielen Fällen eine Katastrophe. Es war sehr, sehr schwierig. Und... And I didn't know how to navigate it. I was totally lost. And then things sort of reached a crescendo. My mom was dying of cancer and I woke up to a miscarriage.

Und ich dachte, ich bin matur, ich weiß, was ich will. Und es war einfach... Die Beziehung war in vielen Fällen eine Katastrophe. Es war sehr, sehr schwierig. Und... And I didn't know how to navigate it. I was totally lost. And then things sort of reached a crescendo. My mom was dying of cancer and I woke up to a miscarriage.

Und ich dachte, ich bin matur, ich weiß, was ich will. Und es war einfach... Die Beziehung war in vielen Fällen eine Katastrophe. Es war sehr, sehr schwierig. Und... And I didn't know how to navigate it. I was totally lost. And then things sort of reached a crescendo. My mom was dying of cancer and I woke up to a miscarriage.

And that was the day that my ex-husband decided to send a text that he wasn't coming home. And so that day, which is how I begin the book, was like the end of my life in many ways, because it was the it was a huge turning point. It was like as if, you know, the universe or God or whatever you believe in some sort of force.

And that was the day that my ex-husband decided to send a text that he wasn't coming home. And so that day, which is how I begin the book, was like the end of my life in many ways, because it was the it was a huge turning point. It was like as if, you know, the universe or God or whatever you believe in some sort of force.

And that was the day that my ex-husband decided to send a text that he wasn't coming home. And so that day, which is how I begin the book, was like the end of my life in many ways, because it was the it was a huge turning point. It was like as if, you know, the universe or God or whatever you believe in some sort of force.

It was like, OK, Jillian, like you thought you were going in this direction, but no, no, no, no. You actually have to go in the opposite direction. And that began my journey into figuring out what makes a relationship work and how to actually How to find meaning in life.

It was like, OK, Jillian, like you thought you were going in this direction, but no, no, no, no. You actually have to go in the opposite direction. And that began my journey into figuring out what makes a relationship work and how to actually How to find meaning in life.

It was like, OK, Jillian, like you thought you were going in this direction, but no, no, no, no. You actually have to go in the opposite direction. And that began my journey into figuring out what makes a relationship work and how to actually How to find meaning in life.

Oh man, this is a big conversation. There's lots of different reasons. One is that we live in a time where women are making more money than ever and are more independent than ever. So a lot of them are... choosing to be single or choosing not to get married. Let's say they're in a relationship, but they're choosing not to get married because they don't see the point in getting married.

Oh man, this is a big conversation. There's lots of different reasons. One is that we live in a time where women are making more money than ever and are more independent than ever. So a lot of them are... choosing to be single or choosing not to get married. Let's say they're in a relationship, but they're choosing not to get married because they don't see the point in getting married.

Oh man, this is a big conversation. There's lots of different reasons. One is that we live in a time where women are making more money than ever and are more independent than ever. So a lot of them are... choosing to be single or choosing not to get married. Let's say they're in a relationship, but they're choosing not to get married because they don't see the point in getting married.

Whereas in the past, especially through a heteronormative lens, it would be, you get married because you need financial support. from your husband and you need other things. But you really you want to build a family. You want to you want to be at home and your husband would be sort of the one sort of monetarily supporting the family. And so things have changed a lot for women.

Whereas in the past, especially through a heteronormative lens, it would be, you get married because you need financial support. from your husband and you need other things. But you really you want to build a family. You want to you want to be at home and your husband would be sort of the one sort of monetarily supporting the family. And so things have changed a lot for women.

Whereas in the past, especially through a heteronormative lens, it would be, you get married because you need financial support. from your husband and you need other things. But you really you want to build a family. You want to you want to be at home and your husband would be sort of the one sort of monetarily supporting the family. And so things have changed a lot for women.

I think now, you know, at least for the women I work with, Most women, they want to be with someone who's financially stable, but what they're looking for more is someone who's emotionally supportive, right? So women don't need that. It also depends where we're looking. If we're looking at cities or we're looking more like suburban areas, it's definitely different in cities.

I think now, you know, at least for the women I work with, Most women, they want to be with someone who's financially stable, but what they're looking for more is someone who's emotionally supportive, right? So women don't need that. It also depends where we're looking. If we're looking at cities or we're looking more like suburban areas, it's definitely different in cities.

I think now, you know, at least for the women I work with, Most women, they want to be with someone who's financially stable, but what they're looking for more is someone who's emotionally supportive, right? So women don't need that. It also depends where we're looking. If we're looking at cities or we're looking more like suburban areas, it's definitely different in cities.

I think that also women, this is along the same vein, is that women's focus... Here's the thing. Alle Frauen, die ich arbeite, wollen Liebe, sie wollen eine Beziehung. Aber sie fokussieren sich auch auf andere Dinge, wie ihre Karriere. Das ist in meiner Sicht eine tolle Sache.