Jillian Turecki

Yeah, it was a very bonding conversation.

Yeah, it was a very bonding conversation.

Well, you just said something very important because one of the things that is a non-negotiable that I tell people is they have to be okay with your past. If they have any issue with it, whatever it was, they're not for you. Because you can't change the past. It's over. So if they're going to have a hang-up over something that you did in the past...

Well, you just said something very important because one of the things that is a non-negotiable that I tell people is they have to be okay with your past. If they have any issue with it, whatever it was, they're not for you. Because you can't change the past. It's over. So if they're going to have a hang-up over something that you did in the past...

If you have a hang-up over something that they did in the past, then maybe they're just not for you. They're not the right fit. Yeah. They're not the right fit. They're not.

If you have a hang-up over something that they did in the past, then maybe they're just not for you. They're not the right fit. Yeah. They're not the right fit. They're not.

No, no. You can't hold their past against someone.

No, no. You can't hold their past against someone.

I say it all and people are like, well, people need to grow. It's like, yes, well, that's sort of inevitable, but you need to really accept them for who they are now, not their potential.

I say it all and people are like, well, people need to grow. It's like, yes, well, that's sort of inevitable, but you need to really accept them for who they are now, not their potential.

But you accept it.

But you accept it.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship we will ever have. The biggest misconception is I'll meet the one and then we are going to have a great relationship. It's like, no, you could meet the one and you could screw it all up. This is what happens in relationship.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship we will ever have. The biggest misconception is I'll meet the one and then we are going to have a great relationship. It's like, no, you could meet the one and you could screw it all up. This is what happens in relationship.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship we will ever have. The biggest misconception is I'll meet the one and then we are going to have a great relationship. It's like, no, you could meet the one and you could screw it all up. This is what happens in relationship.

We have so many expectations and the one expectation that people don't really recognize is somehow this other person is responsible for my happiness. And that is happening all the time. There's two camps of thought. You have to completely love yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship. Or it does not matter. You learn to love yourself while you're in a relationship.

We have so many expectations and the one expectation that people don't really recognize is somehow this other person is responsible for my happiness. And that is happening all the time. There's two camps of thought. You have to completely love yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship. Or it does not matter. You learn to love yourself while you're in a relationship.

We have so many expectations and the one expectation that people don't really recognize is somehow this other person is responsible for my happiness. And that is happening all the time. There's two camps of thought. You have to completely love yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship. Or it does not matter. You learn to love yourself while you're in a relationship.

And I see it somewhere in the middle. But the greatest love is love that you feel safe with. You really shouldn't commit your heart to someone with whom you don't feel that. This feeling that we can't feel fulfilled unless we are in a relationship. That's a dangerous place to be. Fulfillment truly is an inside job.

And I see it somewhere in the middle. But the greatest love is love that you feel safe with. You really shouldn't commit your heart to someone with whom you don't feel that. This feeling that we can't feel fulfilled unless we are in a relationship. That's a dangerous place to be. Fulfillment truly is an inside job.