Jim Murphy

It doesn't matter if you fail horribly.

You do that 10 times and fail horribly 10 times, eventually you're going to get comfortable in those moments and then your skills will be able to match and break through.

But people don't break through because they come to those moments and they shy away.

I mean, this is, we've all done it.

I've done it way too many times.

Well, it's the same thing everyone struggles with.

When I come to those moments, I'm like, oh, I'm so uncomfortable right now.

And then sometimes I've forgotten.

It's like I had this conversation with my spiritual mentor, Nick Osborne, and he said what God does is he gives you a jacket that's two sizes too big.

And that's what a loving parent does when you're four or five years old.

You don't buy them a jacket that's perfectly fit because they're going to grow out of it too fast.

So the parent's going to buy them a jacket that's a little bit too big, right, so they can grow into it.

And he said that's what God does.

He gives you this jacket that's too big.

And then you put it on, you're like, whoa, this is not good.

This is not right.

This doesn't feel right.

What's happened?

And that's what I felt so much.

It's like, okay, this is not okay.