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So, um, so she filed for divorce, um, in January 21 to 2024. So after a few weeks, after I revealed, um, the gambling addiction to her, um, she initially said that we were going to work as a team. Um, but I guess just after a few days when she saw just all the stuff had done and all the debts and the lies, um, she just, um, and there was some previous ruptures in the marriage.
So, um, so she filed for divorce, um, in January 21 to 2024. So after a few weeks, after I revealed, um, the gambling addiction to her, um, she initially said that we were going to work as a team. Um, but I guess just after a few days when she saw just all the stuff had done and all the debts and the lies, um, she just, um, and there was some previous ruptures in the marriage.
So, um, so she filed for divorce, um, in January 21 to 2024. So after a few weeks, after I revealed, um, the gambling addiction to her, um, she initially said that we were going to work as a team. Um, but I guess just after a few days when she saw just all the stuff had done and all the debts and the lies, um, she just, um, and there was some previous ruptures in the marriage.
No, no, not at all. Um, no, no physical abuse, no verbal abuse. I'm like probably the nicest guy you'll ever meet. Um, but I, I do have an issue with avoidance. Um, I do keep things to myself. Um, um, just, you know, there was other, uh, I, I, I mean, kind of tell you, um, some other things like I would unilaterally make financial decisions without consulting, um,
No, no, not at all. Um, no, no physical abuse, no verbal abuse. I'm like probably the nicest guy you'll ever meet. Um, but I, I do have an issue with avoidance. Um, I do keep things to myself. Um, um, just, you know, there was other, uh, I, I, I mean, kind of tell you, um, some other things like I would unilaterally make financial decisions without consulting, um,
No, no, not at all. Um, no, no physical abuse, no verbal abuse. I'm like probably the nicest guy you'll ever meet. Um, but I, I do have an issue with avoidance. Um, I do keep things to myself. Um, um, just, you know, there was other, uh, I, I, I mean, kind of tell you, um, some other things like I would unilaterally make financial decisions without consulting, um,
My wife, there were other financial issues like involving my parents. I didn't tell my wife that created some hardship for us when we had to buy a house. I mean, I can get into more of those details if you want to. But there were, yeah, I mean, she didn't feel she was treated as an equal or as a partner with other financial decisions.
My wife, there were other financial issues like involving my parents. I didn't tell my wife that created some hardship for us when we had to buy a house. I mean, I can get into more of those details if you want to. But there were, yeah, I mean, she didn't feel she was treated as an equal or as a partner with other financial decisions.
My wife, there were other financial issues like involving my parents. I didn't tell my wife that created some hardship for us when we had to buy a house. I mean, I can get into more of those details if you want to. But there were, yeah, I mean, she didn't feel she was treated as an equal or as a partner with other financial decisions.
Well, so then she hired an attorney around this time last year. And then she told me she wanted to have this meeting with her father and her sister and it was on a Sunday afternoon. And then, uh, I just thought we were talking about finances and then she hits me with, um, divorce. And then, uh, and then of course I was like begging and pleading.
Well, so then she hired an attorney around this time last year. And then she told me she wanted to have this meeting with her father and her sister and it was on a Sunday afternoon. And then, uh, I just thought we were talking about finances and then she hits me with, um, divorce. And then, uh, and then of course I was like begging and pleading.
Well, so then she hired an attorney around this time last year. And then she told me she wanted to have this meeting with her father and her sister and it was on a Sunday afternoon. And then, uh, I just thought we were talking about finances and then she hits me with, um, divorce. And then, uh, and then of course I was like begging and pleading.
And then she's like, yeah, but it's not just the gambling. It's all the other things that, you know, you, um, yeah, you never been honest with me. Um, well not never, but there's, you know, many times you're not been honest with me. Um, you've, um, um, you know, stonewalled me, uh, lack of communication, lack of transparency, um, emotional insecurity.
And then she's like, yeah, but it's not just the gambling. It's all the other things that, you know, you, um, yeah, you never been honest with me. Um, well not never, but there's, you know, many times you're not been honest with me. Um, you've, um, um, you know, stonewalled me, uh, lack of communication, lack of transparency, um, emotional insecurity.
And then she's like, yeah, but it's not just the gambling. It's all the other things that, you know, you, um, yeah, you never been honest with me. Um, well not never, but there's, you know, many times you're not been honest with me. Um, you've, um, um, you know, stonewalled me, uh, lack of communication, lack of transparency, um, emotional insecurity.
Those are a lot of some of the other deeper things that have been, um, going on. Um, but yeah, then a few days later I got served papers and then, um, we've been kind of going through the process, but, um, you know, we're now in a nesting arrangement with our kids. So as I said, I work down in the Bay area, but they live up in Sacramento. So I'm down here four or five days a week.
Those are a lot of some of the other deeper things that have been, um, going on. Um, but yeah, then a few days later I got served papers and then, um, we've been kind of going through the process, but, um, you know, we're now in a nesting arrangement with our kids. So as I said, I work down in the Bay area, but they live up in Sacramento. So I'm down here four or five days a week.
Those are a lot of some of the other deeper things that have been, um, going on. Um, but yeah, then a few days later I got served papers and then, um, we've been kind of going through the process, but, um, you know, we're now in a nesting arrangement with our kids. So as I said, I work down in the Bay area, but they live up in Sacramento. So I'm down here four or five days a week.
I stay with my parents. Um, then I go back to my house on Friday night and then my wife leaves and she stays with her. Her family lives up there. Um, she stays either at her parents or sister's house. I'm with the kids on Saturdays, and then she comes back Sunday night. We just kind of do it all over again. That's kind of the hamster wheel we've been on.
I stay with my parents. Um, then I go back to my house on Friday night and then my wife leaves and she stays with her. Her family lives up there. Um, she stays either at her parents or sister's house. I'm with the kids on Saturdays, and then she comes back Sunday night. We just kind of do it all over again. That's kind of the hamster wheel we've been on.