Jim

I have a little bit of a back story.

My sister, oldest sister, I'm the fourth of eight kids.

about a year ago, decided that she wanted nothing to do with my parents and the older four of us kids.

What happened?

Well, it's kind of confusing for us, to be honest, but it comes from she had a very hard life with health and medical issues, which got her going down a route of

looking for answers about why her life is the way it is.

I think, I mean, this is fundamental attribution error probably, but, um, she came across CP, CPTSD and, um, concluded that she had it and then tried to backfill the, you know, the, the past trauma.

And what was the past trauma for her?

She said it was neglect by my parents and,

because my parents had so many kids.

That's what she's told us.

And then she asked us, did we experience these things?

And all of us said, not really.

And that was it for us.

She felt like we weren't supporting her and wasn't really in a...

And because we weren't supporting her, which just doesn't want to talk to us anymore.

So my, so she made a dull decision to not talk to us.

Uh, 39.

Uh,

So my dad is still trying to reach out.