Joanna Hausman

I'd be like, yeah, that's fine.

You take this one.

Interesting.

Is it because Irish Catholics have like 17 kids each and they're like, I don't have time for cousins.

Yeah, I honestly.

I mean, I did tell her she can't stay in my house because we just don't have the space.

So, you know, when she has her space, I think it's the perfect mix.

And, yeah, I mean, I'm curious to see because I don't know what happens with grandparents.

I think grandparents have the privilege of perspective of knowing that what you stress over isn't necessary.

And, like, truthfully, the most probable thing is that your kid's going to be fine.

But when you're in it, you don't know that, right?

So, you know, my baby cries, like, at 6 p.m.

every day, but we have to wait a little bit before we feed her.

So, like, inevitably, we have to, like, you know, soothe her, but she cries.

And my mom's like, you are torturing the baby.

Give her the food.

I'm like, no, we're not sleep-saving her.

She's like, I didn't sleep-save you at all.

I just gave you what you needed because I was a good mother.

you know and it's like a lot more intense so it's you know we we also have so much more research at the palm of our hand when it comes to so much of this and i think i don't know my my my parents like winged it my mom was like what are you reading like what's all this reading you're doing these books and my you know i she was like you were born i just figured it out yeah so i feel like