Joanne McNally

She's like, drive is such the wrong term for it because sex drives,

Like if you are thirsty or hungry, you'll go out of your way to feed yourself or take some liquids in with sex.

The less you have, the less.

Yeah.

But also like lust and sex and it's.

There's another woman, Esther Perel, who I... Yeah, I love Esther Perel.

Yeah, she's fab.

And she talks about, like, sex and desire is all in, like, the unknown.

You know?

So when you know someone so well... Yeah.

Sex... And I do think... And I'm sweeping generalizations here and stereotyping, obviously, but I think women write... We have sex differently.

We write differently.

We just do.

I think men are more kind of functional writers.

Yeah, they'll be putting hot sauce in the condoms.

If you heard about the NFL players, when they have sex with women on one night stands, they put hot sauce in the condoms because the women are stealing the condoms and impregnating themselves with the sperm.

What?

Yeah, I know.

Fantastic.

yeah I hope so because like I think I've proved my point to myself now I'm very good on my own I'm a very resilient person I wasn't always that way but I'm like okay you've made your point now soften down soften a little bit now because it is love like being in love is like I miss fancying people and having a crush and all do you remember it's so much fun you're like oh god