Joel Kim Booster

And it's like just as long as like creating because for me, it's like I just want to like throw have a really good experience for the people that I'm asking to fly to San Francisco for this wedding, you know, and like, yeah, it's going to be a really good party.

And it's like just as long as like creating because for me, it's like I just want to like throw have a really good experience for the people that I'm asking to fly to San Francisco for this wedding, you know, and like, yeah, it's going to be a really good party.

Neither one of us, when we entered the relationship, were gay marriage guys. I think the expectation for a while was that we were just going to be those weird 55-year-old boyfriends who've been together for a million years. And I think there's something shifted when I think we realized to say in front of... It's like when you tell your friends you're writing a book.

Neither one of us, when we entered the relationship, were gay marriage guys. I think the expectation for a while was that we were just going to be those weird 55-year-old boyfriends who've been together for a million years. And I think there's something shifted when I think we realized to say in front of... It's like when you tell your friends you're writing a book.

Neither one of us, when we entered the relationship, were gay marriage guys. I think the expectation for a while was that we were just going to be those weird 55-year-old boyfriends who've been together for a million years. And I think there's something shifted when I think we realized to say in front of... It's like when you tell your friends you're writing a book.

It's like, well, now you have to write the book. Because they will ask about it forever. And it is that thing of like...

It's like, well, now you have to write the book. Because they will ask about it forever. And it is that thing of like...

It's like, well, now you have to write the book. Because they will ask about it forever. And it is that thing of like...

when we really decided that like you know because my assumption for so long was that I would meet someone I would fall in love with that person and be in love with that person for the rest of my life but we had this conversation three years deep where it was like wow in three years we have both changed so much and you are not the person that I fell in love with you are different I'm still in love with you though this version and I am pretty confident I'm going to be in love with the next iteration and like iteration four will suck but we'll ride that out into iteration five and like

when we really decided that like you know because my assumption for so long was that I would meet someone I would fall in love with that person and be in love with that person for the rest of my life but we had this conversation three years deep where it was like wow in three years we have both changed so much and you are not the person that I fell in love with you are different I'm still in love with you though this version and I am pretty confident I'm going to be in love with the next iteration and like iteration four will suck but we'll ride that out into iteration five and like

when we really decided that like you know because my assumption for so long was that I would meet someone I would fall in love with that person and be in love with that person for the rest of my life but we had this conversation three years deep where it was like wow in three years we have both changed so much and you are not the person that I fell in love with you are different I'm still in love with you though this version and I am pretty confident I'm going to be in love with the next iteration and like iteration four will suck but we'll ride that out into iteration five and like

Once we had that realization, it was like, oh no, I really want to stand up in front of my friends and say, I'm going to do the work. Falling in love was not my choice. It just sort of happened. But the work of staying in love, these weddings that we've been to over the last couple of years, that's really a powerful thing. And we're not religious people. It's not about that.

Once we had that realization, it was like, oh no, I really want to stand up in front of my friends and say, I'm going to do the work. Falling in love was not my choice. It just sort of happened. But the work of staying in love, these weddings that we've been to over the last couple of years, that's really a powerful thing. And we're not religious people. It's not about that.

Once we had that realization, it was like, oh no, I really want to stand up in front of my friends and say, I'm going to do the work. Falling in love was not my choice. It just sort of happened. But the work of staying in love, these weddings that we've been to over the last couple of years, that's really a powerful thing. And we're not religious people. It's not about that.

It's about sort of like... us, you know, sort of like asking our friends to keep us accountable for promises we made.

It's about sort of like... us, you know, sort of like asking our friends to keep us accountable for promises we made.

It's about sort of like... us, you know, sort of like asking our friends to keep us accountable for promises we made.

Yeah. You know? Oh, I fucking hate saying fiance though.

Yeah. You know? Oh, I fucking hate saying fiance though.

Yeah. You know? Oh, I fucking hate saying fiance though.