John Deloney

Right?

And that's just part of being a parent, right?

Yeah, you got it.

Do the best you can with what you got when you got it.

The only thing I'll ask is be as honest as you can with your kids in real time.

It is a...

can be embarrassing it can be shameful a few you could feel not you shouldn't be ashamed but you could have feel shame like hey 17 year old or your 17 year old's going marines but hey 16 year old this is the situation we've been in and this is what we're going to have to contribute we're only going to have ten thousand dollars

And so let's go through the honest options here and let's figure out what's right.

Like, it's just being as honest as you can.

And then look at your seven and eight year old and say, let's make sure this never happens again.

And so we're going to start putting more away for them to have different opportunities, which is awesome.

Go ahead, go ahead.

Okay.

I'm going to give you some hard reality.

Okay.

How much, how much money does he say he owes?

Okay, so here's what you're going to need underneath your feet, okay?

I call this financial infidelity.

He's been cheating and lying to you, okay?

And so first off, I want you to not think you're crazy for this blowing up your world.