John Deloney

Yeah.

I would bring your husband into this.

Yeah, it's his conversation to have with –

Yeah, and I'm just curious because, you know, if Ken were here, he would say to just ask questions instead of saying, you need to do this, you need to do that.

A couple of well-placed and well-thought-through questions that you just let hang in the air when you say, okay, if the worst happens, Dad, and, you know, on the way home, you get in an accident, how is Mom—

going to pay the mortgage?

How are, you know, I don't know what the brother-in-law's name, how are we going to take care of little Bobby?

How are we going to, I'm just wondering what your plan for that is, or have you considered what your plan for that is?

Right.

Maybe come up with one or two questions.

that that your son can ask at the right time with dad it's not in the middle of a heated argument it's not you know when they're already talking about one thing and now he brings this up too it's they go to breakfast they go out just the two of them and at the right time he says you know we've had a lot of questions we've had a lot of conversations about this i'm just wondering you know um and he asked the two questions and just let it sits there sit there

And then to which he can say, no, that's not an option.

You're going to have to come up with something.

Yeah.

Yeah, you know it.

You know the deal.

Let me tell you something, John.

I'm getting frustrated because I feel like the top two calls that we've been getting lately, and I'm not picking on men.

I'm just telling you what I'm getting.

The top two calls are a wife who calls in, and her husband is either locking her out of the money, doing something shady with the money.