John Delony
đ€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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And that doesn't mean I'm also not going to take care of my parents.
But I get to decide the terms of what taking care of means.
It doesn't mean that they have a built-in servant for the rest of my natural life.
Does that make sense?
Yes.
And there are some significant cultural layers here, right?
Like, I want to own this is a very American way of looking at this problem.
Okay.
You're my daughter.
You do whatever I say for as long as I'm alive.
You are my caretaker forever and ever.
Amen.
And caretaker means you do what I say when I say it.
Yes.
Okay.
So here's the exercise I want you to go through with yourself before you talk to him again, okay?
Okay.
Number one, I want you to be clear about an or what statement.
What's your line?
If it came down to it, would you move them into your two-bedroom apartment into one of the back bedrooms?