John Delony
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Podcast Appearances
I get you wanted to be around your old brother.
Fine.
I don't want to go.
I'm not going to go.
And he can be mad at you.
He can be like, I think you're making a big deal over nothing.
Great.
Cool.
And if you start to lose respect for your husband, I can't believe my husband's cowering and walking back into this mess.
We're going to get hurt again.
Then have the courage to tell your husband specifically, I'm losing respect in you.
I am losing attraction to you.
I am losing security and safety with you and trust in you because I feel like we're going to end up right back.
And he's going to throw another business deal on the table and we're going to be right back in the same boat.
And you're going to be like, yeah, sure.
It sounds great.
And so it's just being super clear.
And once you're clear, then we can say, I don't mind if my kids are around that, or I'm not being around that, or it just, it clarifies our path.
When we feel those feelings, awesome, good.
And we