John Delony
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
But, but you're, you're trying to solve a math problem and he's trying to solve a hole in his chest problem.
He's trying to feel safe extrinsically outside.
So here's, here's the best path forward.
It's very similar.
I've told her a call earlier on the show.
How long have y'all been married total?
Oh, so y'all are new, new, new into this thing.
Okay.
So already you're in two new relationships within two years.
So y'all dated for five years.
Y'all got married.
You were married for what?
Nine months and you got pregnant or six months and you got pregnant.
And so then you have a four month old.
The marriage you had is over.
Doesn't exist.
What most people do is they spend all their energy trying to either get back what was or prepare for what might be someday.
And they never just set in the middle and say that we get to build this life right now.
And so I'll recommend with you what I recommend with everybody.
I do this in my house.