John Delony
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Podcast Appearances
You've got the embarrassment, all that stuff.
Take that away for a second.
Do you want to marry this guy?
Okay.
Let me get beneath that question.
Is he a person that you can safely anchor into till death do you part?
Okay.
But we're past that now.
Are you confident that this is all there is?
Okay.
There's a third option there.
Okay.
It's not, well, I just got to be worried for the rest of my life, or I just got to jump back in the middle of this boiling pot and I hope I don't get burned.
The third option is, and this is the hardest one, but this is the path to healing after infidelity.
After somebody cheats on you and breaks your heart, it is you doing the hard work to think
What must be true for me to truly trust him again?
And then you give him a very clear roadmap for him to follow.
And he walks that path.
And that path might be, I don't want you to have a phone for six months.
Or I want us to share whatever.