John Delony

And it's really that simple.

But here's what that does.

It forces her, and I have an emotional, like, it makes me feel icky, the phrase, you're not meeting my emotional needs.

Because that is an often 99% of the time.

It's an amorphous blob of goo.

Yeah.

That nobody, nobody can grab.

And it's her saying to herself, I'll know if this is okay to keep going forward because I'll feel a certain way.

And feelings are so all over the place.

Right.

And so I want her to be, and say that also, I need a path to your emotional needs and especially emotional wants.

She needs, and I say this a lot, like I think we overuse the word need a lot in relationships.

We're like, I need this, I need this.

No, you don't, you want that.

And that's great, but let's call it what it is.

But I'll give her this one.

She needs a husband who will pick her up off the side of the road.

She doesn't need somebody that agrees with everything she says.

She doesn't need somebody that will never fight with her.

She wants those things.