John Delony
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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The story I'm making up about that is, is you're expecting me to read your mind and I can't do that.
And the other story I'm making up is you don't really want to get back together.
Yeah.
How I feel about that is I'm heartbroken.
I have a hole in my stomach because I know I did you wrong and I'm trying so hard.
Yeah.
Right?
And that pushes all of the truth on the table.
You own all of it.
I'm owning my experience.
I'm owning the stories I'm making up about you, about us, about me.
And I'm owning how I feel about it.
And then I've got hands open.
What do we do next?
And when you say the story I'm choosing to make up is you don't really want to get back together with me.
You don't want to break up, but you're done with the marriage.
Let that hang.
And then she gets to address the stories you made up.
Yeah.
But compassion and rebuilding a marriage is you have, I mean, you can't rebuild a building that's fallen over.