John Delony

Or do I want to be right?

And because she had the courage to have that conversation with me, it was a big dose of cold water to my face.

And over time, it really changed to now, this many years later, I don't answer any question unless somebody asks me.

And then I usually say, this is what I would do in my house, or this is what I do, right?

All that to say is that courage changed.

I mean, that courage, courageous conversation, my wife had changed me, or at least it planted the seeds of dramatic change.

And also he could look at you and say, oh my gosh, screw you.

I'm out of here.

You're just like every other, like whatever, fill in the blank with misogynist comment and he can walk out.

Do you think he loves you?

Okay.

I think he's worth you telling the truth too.

I don't like being around you anymore because you've gotten mean.

And when you say mean things about other people, you make it my fault.

And that's not the guy I married.

And I miss you.

Okay, tell him that.

And if your need to make racist jokes or misogynist jokes that you're getting off the internet, if your need to do that is more important than your wife feeling safe and loved, then we've got bigger issues in our marriage.

But I don't think this is you.

This isn't the guy I married.