John Gafford

Good.

Yeah.

That, yeah, it's so, yeah, I just, the world would be a better place if we could just go back to everybody not having to have an opinion on every single thing.

One of the most, I mean, if you're listening to this, let me tell you one of the, the one phrase that will set you free, which is this.

I don't have an opinion on that.

I don't have an opinion on that.

I don't have an opinion.

Is she a coach at all?

So it's funny you say that because by the time this comes out this will already be out So I haven't I have a newsletter that goes on every Wednesday the Wednesday wake up right the Wednesday wake up and and so I know it's just little things will happen in my life and I was like us whatever and I start kind of researching how I feel or what I think about it always to get better and You'll appreciate this so much as a life coach why people are

are programmed to seek advice from those close to them that are completely unqualified to give said advice is one of the great mysteries that I know.

So, so a girl that I know shared this, I guess she's newly single, but she shared this long diatribe that this woman had written on Facebook about why men are failing in relationships.

And it was this long diatribe about why we are screwing up and why we, where we need to commit more in relationships.

And of course, so out of curiosity, I click on her profile and I'm going to give you a one guess if she's married or not.

No.

So, and I'm there thinking taking marital advice from a single person is like hiring a fat person to be your dietician.

It makes no sense.

But we want to seek out information that makes us comfortable with ourselves, which is normally from the people closest to us, rather than seeking out people that are qualified.

I see it all the time.

The echo chamber that gets increasingly worse every single day.

I mean, when the halftime show at the Super Bowl becomes a major political event, what are we doing?