John R. Miles
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
This is where imagination starts to move again.
Not imagination as fantasy or escape, imagination as possibility.
The quiet sense that life could be approached differently.
that there might be more than one way forward, that you don't have to solve everything tonight.
When we're weighed down by old stories and unfinished emotional business, imagination narrows.
We repeat what we know, even when it no longer works.
But when space opens, something else becomes available.
Choice, not forced choice.
not dramatic reinvention, just the freedom to respond instead of react.
Flow begins here, and flow isn't about intensity or peak performance.
It's about alignment.
It's what happens when effort and resistance are no longer fighting each other, when you're not dragging yesterday's weight into today's decisions.
When attention is no longer split between what's happening and what you're still carrying, you can feel this most clearly in relationships.
When you let go of an old resentment, you listen differently.
When you release a self-story about being too much or not enough, you show up honestly.
When you stop proving your worth through usefulness, presence becomes a gift instead of a transaction.
You're not performing closeness
you're inhabiting it, and something else beautiful happens.
When you stop carrying what's finished, you stop asking the future to compensate for the past.
You're no longer waiting for the next milestone, the next validation, the next version of yourself to finally feel whole.