Jonathan Pokluda

I do, I am a, I guess like a soft complementarian to put a theological term on it. I do believe God made male and female different to play different roles. Now I'm not saying that a woman can't work outside the home, so that would be like a really hard complementarian stance. That's not where I'm at at all. I'm just like, look at me and my wife, and I look at most men and most women,

I do, I am a, I guess like a soft complementarian to put a theological term on it. I do believe God made male and female different to play different roles. Now I'm not saying that a woman can't work outside the home, so that would be like a really hard complementarian stance. That's not where I'm at at all. I'm just like, look at me and my wife, and I look at most men and most women,

I do, I am a, I guess like a soft complementarian to put a theological term on it. I do believe God made male and female different to play different roles. Now I'm not saying that a woman can't work outside the home, so that would be like a really hard complementarian stance. That's not where I'm at at all. I'm just like, look at me and my wife, and I look at most men and most women,

and i'm like they're different there are things that my wife is much better at than i am and those things are necessary and and they play a role in the raising of our children that is invaluable like there are so many things that she's better at than me and there are some things where i'm going to excel beyond her capabilities because of how god made me as a male and so i think that plays a role in marriage that we need to to consider

and i'm like they're different there are things that my wife is much better at than i am and those things are necessary and and they play a role in the raising of our children that is invaluable like there are so many things that she's better at than me and there are some things where i'm going to excel beyond her capabilities because of how god made me as a male and so i think that plays a role in marriage that we need to to consider

and i'm like they're different there are things that my wife is much better at than i am and those things are necessary and and they play a role in the raising of our children that is invaluable like there are so many things that she's better at than me and there are some things where i'm going to excel beyond her capabilities because of how god made me as a male and so i think that plays a role in marriage that we need to to consider

um so on the flip side from uh what women should look for in a man yeah what should the man be looking for in a godly woman in today's day and age yeah i think you're looking for um uh someone if the job is a great wife and a great mother to my kids then i would consider okay what are the qualities that would make someone a great wife and a great mother to my kids.

um so on the flip side from uh what women should look for in a man yeah what should the man be looking for in a godly woman in today's day and age yeah i think you're looking for um uh someone if the job is a great wife and a great mother to my kids then i would consider okay what are the qualities that would make someone a great wife and a great mother to my kids.

um so on the flip side from uh what women should look for in a man yeah what should the man be looking for in a godly woman in today's day and age yeah i think you're looking for um uh someone if the job is a great wife and a great mother to my kids then i would consider okay what are the qualities that would make someone a great wife and a great mother to my kids.

I think you have to think beyond the bedroom. If you have a really healthy sex life, you're having sex 0.6% of the time. That's if you're doing it a lot. 0.6% of the time. Which means you better be really great at a lot of the things you're gonna be doing 99.4% of the time. That's a lot of conversations. That's a lot of other things. And I just don't think dudes think about that.

I think you have to think beyond the bedroom. If you have a really healthy sex life, you're having sex 0.6% of the time. That's if you're doing it a lot. 0.6% of the time. Which means you better be really great at a lot of the things you're gonna be doing 99.4% of the time. That's a lot of conversations. That's a lot of other things. And I just don't think dudes think about that.

I think you have to think beyond the bedroom. If you have a really healthy sex life, you're having sex 0.6% of the time. That's if you're doing it a lot. 0.6% of the time. Which means you better be really great at a lot of the things you're gonna be doing 99.4% of the time. That's a lot of conversations. That's a lot of other things. And I just don't think dudes think about that.

I don't think dudes think about how her body's gonna change through pregnancy and giving birth to three children. I don't think a lot of dudes are thinking about how there's parts of her bodies that are gonna be off limits for long periods of time. And this is how porn has just really messed us up.

I don't think dudes think about how her body's gonna change through pregnancy and giving birth to three children. I don't think a lot of dudes are thinking about how there's parts of her bodies that are gonna be off limits for long periods of time. And this is how porn has just really messed us up.

I don't think dudes think about how her body's gonna change through pregnancy and giving birth to three children. I don't think a lot of dudes are thinking about how there's parts of her bodies that are gonna be off limits for long periods of time. And this is how porn has just really messed us up.

And so you're thinking through the character qualities of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness.

And so you're thinking through the character qualities of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness.

And so you're thinking through the character qualities of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness.

self-control Galatians 5 this is a great list to look for in a wife I wrote another book called outdated I mentioned earlier and there's actually I have a list in there of what to look for in a guy and what to look for in a girl to try to just you know spell that out but first Peter 3 is a great scripture Ephesians 5 you mentioned earlier is a great scripture Colossians 3

self-control Galatians 5 this is a great list to look for in a wife I wrote another book called outdated I mentioned earlier and there's actually I have a list in there of what to look for in a guy and what to look for in a girl to try to just you know spell that out but first Peter 3 is a great scripture Ephesians 5 you mentioned earlier is a great scripture Colossians 3