Jonathan Pokluda

This is God's will for you.

Yeah, man. So it's like the Hebrew word dode, this mingling of souls. Matt Chandler writes about this.

Yeah, man. So it's like the Hebrew word dode, this mingling of souls. Matt Chandler writes about this.

Yeah, man. So it's like the Hebrew word dode, this mingling of souls. Matt Chandler writes about this.

it's it's it's so different than what you think as a single person i'll just say speak first person very different than what i thought of as a single person selfless service so as as a like we often when we think about intimacy we think what can i get what pleasure can i experience but it's really an act of giving

it's it's it's so different than what you think as a single person i'll just say speak first person very different than what i thought of as a single person selfless service so as as a like we often when we think about intimacy we think what can i get what pleasure can i experience but it's really an act of giving

it's it's it's so different than what you think as a single person i'll just say speak first person very different than what i thought of as a single person selfless service so as as a like we often when we think about intimacy we think what can i get what pleasure can i experience but it's really an act of giving

you know how can I how can I serve my lover and and make sure that she is cared for and she feels safe and protected and um and and uh you know I'm gentle and I'm not trying to be weird now I know that people are going to take that out of context and make a meme about me but

you know how can I how can I serve my lover and and make sure that she is cared for and she feels safe and protected and um and and uh you know I'm gentle and I'm not trying to be weird now I know that people are going to take that out of context and make a meme about me but

you know how can I how can I serve my lover and and make sure that she is cared for and she feels safe and protected and um and and uh you know I'm gentle and I'm not trying to be weird now I know that people are going to take that out of context and make a meme about me but

i wasn't trying to be weird either asking it but i know people at people genuinely are like yeah giving likes like selflessness uh i always tell like single friends i'm like don't live alone like if you desire marriage don't live alone because idiosyncrasies grow in isolation and um and marriage is really a long act of selflessly serving somebody for the rest of your life

i wasn't trying to be weird either asking it but i know people at people genuinely are like yeah giving likes like selflessness uh i always tell like single friends i'm like don't live alone like if you desire marriage don't live alone because idiosyncrasies grow in isolation and um and marriage is really a long act of selflessly serving somebody for the rest of your life

i wasn't trying to be weird either asking it but i know people at people genuinely are like yeah giving likes like selflessness uh i always tell like single friends i'm like don't live alone like if you desire marriage don't live alone because idiosyncrasies grow in isolation and um and marriage is really a long act of selflessly serving somebody for the rest of your life

And it's beautiful and it's great and it's awesome. Um, and it, but it's hard and it's work and, um, and there's some real challenges there. And so one of the best ways to prepare for marriage is have roommates, dysfunctional roommates that don't do the dishes, you know, those kinds of roommates that will prepare you for marriage.

And it's beautiful and it's great and it's awesome. Um, and it, but it's hard and it's work and, um, and there's some real challenges there. And so one of the best ways to prepare for marriage is have roommates, dysfunctional roommates that don't do the dishes, you know, those kinds of roommates that will prepare you for marriage.

And it's beautiful and it's great and it's awesome. Um, and it, but it's hard and it's work and, um, and there's some real challenges there. And so one of the best ways to prepare for marriage is have roommates, dysfunctional roommates that don't do the dishes, you know, those kinds of roommates that will prepare you for marriage.

Sure. And how? Yeah, I think when you have no regard for your spouse's safety, when you try to bring in images outside the marriage, and so some people are like, oh, well, we'll look at porn together. It's like that is... That is so sinful and evil and Satan receives it as worship. Satan receives pornography as worship. You can quote me on that. Yeah, I don't mean to be prideful when I say that.

Sure. And how? Yeah, I think when you have no regard for your spouse's safety, when you try to bring in images outside the marriage, and so some people are like, oh, well, we'll look at porn together. It's like that is... That is so sinful and evil and Satan receives it as worship. Satan receives pornography as worship. You can quote me on that. Yeah, I don't mean to be prideful when I say that.

Sure. And how? Yeah, I think when you have no regard for your spouse's safety, when you try to bring in images outside the marriage, and so some people are like, oh, well, we'll look at porn together. It's like that is... That is so sinful and evil and Satan receives it as worship. Satan receives pornography as worship. You can quote me on that. Yeah, I don't mean to be prideful when I say that.

I've been so personally hurt by pornography. I brought so much pain on myself and others with that that I think the enemy is glorified in it. If you push your spouse to do something that they're not comfortable doing, it's not a sales pitch. It's a time of serving them and caring for them. And that's really what I mean.