Jordan Harbinger
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Joka tapauksessa, ehkÀ hÀn tulee enemmÀn todellisempi, kun hÀn tulee vanhempi. En tiedÀ. Joten kun todella tunnet, ettÀ hÀn tuntee tÀtÀ asiaa, minÀ en ole liian halunnut mennÀ esiin ja saavuttaa hÀntÀ. Tietysti ei sinun omaa finanssiaalisuutta. Luulen, ettÀ todellinen teema sinun kirjassasi, ja se on niin rikas kysymys, on, kuinka tulla lopuksi vanhempien rajoituksista. Ja miten heidÀn psykologiastaan tuntuu, ja miten heidÀt rakastaa.
MielestÀni hÀn on jo loppunut suurin osa huolta isÀstÀ, joten kuten sanoit Gabe, se on todennÀköistÀ, mutta hÀnellÀ on edelleen osa, joka tuntee, ettÀ hÀn pitÀisi kestÀÀ isÀstÀ sellaista huolta ja motivaatiota, mikÀ voisi olla enemmÀn kuin se, ettÀ hÀn jÀtetÀÀn hÀntÀ, kun hÀn jÀtetÀÀn. Ja mielestÀni se, mitÀ olet saanut siitÀ, on se, ettÀ missÀ se onnistuu, koska se pitÀisi mennÀ pitkÀÀn. Ja mitÀ olisi tapahtunut, jos hÀn laittaisi se onnistuun?
Ei pysty ymmÀrtÀmÀÀn enemmÀn, Gabe. Ja sillÀ tapauksessa, ei, en todennÀköisesti yrittÀisi kohtaa hÀntÀ itse, koska se ei kuulosta niin kuin hÀn pystyy oikeasti auttamaan tai ettÀ hÀn ei edes tiedÀ, mitÀ tehdÀ siitÀ. Joten tÀÀllÀ myös, voisi ajatella, onko tÀrkeÀÀ, ettÀ impulsio aloittaa ja kohtaa hÀntÀ myös tekemÀllÀ hÀnet, tekemÀllÀ tÀtÀ työtÀ hÀntÀ, ehkÀ vÀlttÀmÀllÀ jotain työtÀ itselleen yrittÀmÀllÀ hÀnet muodostamaan.
Minun mielestÀni parhaimmat asiat ovat rakastaa isÀsi, tukea isÀsi ja luoda isÀsi, eikÀ vÀlttÀmÀttÀ haittaa itseÀsi taloudellisesti, ilmaisesti tai kÀytÀnnössÀ. TÀmÀ on tehtÀvÀ. Se voi vaikuttaa jatkuvasta huolta ja tarkastelua. Mutta luulen, ettÀ opetan enemmÀn ja enemmÀn, mikÀ on terveellinen ja vahva investointi isÀsi ja mikÀ ei.
Joten seuraava askel on ymmÀrtÀÀ sitÀ ja vahvistaa sitÀ, kun edelleen nÀytÀt isÀsi, ettÀ sinÀ olet siellÀ hÀnen kanssaan, ja ettÀ olet oikeastaan hyödyllinen, jos hÀn haluaa sitÀ. Ja kyllÀ, voi tulla hetki, kun sinun ja isÀsi pitÀÀ mennÀ esiin ja huolehtia heitÀ, jos hÀn on todella onnistunut. SiinÀ on myös rauhaa ja hyvÀksymyksiÀ, mutta en vÀlttÀmÀttÀ halua hÀnet ulkopuolisesti.
I wouldn't deprive him of the opportunity to step up and take care of himself. He's 62, he's not 92. He can still pivot to other options and hold down a job that'll keep a roof over his head. And maybe the best thing you can do is help him turn that corner. I'm sorry you're dealing with all this. I can only imagine how intense and sad it's gotta be, but...
You're also handling this with so much thoughtfulness, so much insight, so much self-awareness. And I know that's going to lead you to the right stance with your dad. Sending you, your brother, your whole family a big hug and wishing you all the best.
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