Jordan Harbinger

So that is definitely out there.

There's guys that are totally fine with this.

Oh, for sure.

Yeah, that's a crazy story.

I'm so glad you were looking out and intervened.

She was really freaking lucky.

I'm still to this day pissed off at her friends.

It's been like eight years.

I'm still pissed off at her friends for just bouncing and leaving her there.

How did that happen?

What's going on here?

But also, a woman should sort of be allowed to hang out at a place in public during the day and not get raped.

I mean, hot take, right?

I guess the only way I can reconcile these dark realities is by acknowledging that

All people contain good and bad in them.

And I think it's clear that men carry the unique burden of suffering alone and being violent for some reason of wanting to conquer and attain power and all these things that put them in situations to create harm or create excuses to cause harm, especially to women, sadly.

And I think that's pretty self-evident.

Whether it's biology or psychology or culture, again, I'm not qualified to say, I'm sure they all play a role, and I know a lot of women just hate this phrase, but look, still not all men, right?

Not all men, clearly.

And so to address your other point about the 81% statistic, putting aside any questions about the methodology and how the researchers define these terms, those studies are deeply concerning no matter what,